Hi Jenn, glad to see some more people from Mississippi joining this site. I too have had alot of thoughts concerning emotions when it comes right down to seeing the wife with another man. We have talked and talked and well,you get the picture. To fantasize about this is one thing,but to actually go through with it is another matter. I guess you never really know how you are going to handle it until it happens. But rest assured,you have come to the right place. These guys and gals are very friendly and informative and their advice and expertise are very helpful. Oh by the way,we're in south MS. So maybe we could hook-up some time. J.