dixiedelight2

I've never played with anyone that was so drunk they didn't know someone was sticking a dick in them or that they were being fucked by someone they didn't want to fuck them. I'm not judging anyone here just stating the way I see it based on how you explained it. Sorry.

Sounds like your sexy little triad is turning into an affair for your husband and guest.

I thought what she said was pretty obvious. lol. If and when the two of you decided to allow someone or some others in your sex life she definitely wants them to be a better catch than what she perceives you guys have with each other. Better looks, better bodies, bigger penis, bigger/prettier boobs, higher up the social ladder, etc, etc. Some might say that's a little crass but it's pretty much the nature of humans to want or expect better if they're going to step out of their tried and true comfort zone. Unlike us men, most ladies have to overcome feeling guilty or vulgur using someone for personal sexual extasy. Yes you respect and enjoy giving a new partner the same sexual satisfaction you seek but it's not with the same heart felt bond of love as with your own life partner. I suspect your GF had enough contact with the lifestyle in the two experiences you mentioned to get a real feel of how exciting sex outside of the traditional boundries can be. She was eager to go to the club because she liked that different kind of excitement and wanted to feel it again with you. The beauty of the lifestyle is there is no guilt because you are honest and you share the experience with your loved life partner. Take things slow. I think anyone will tell you just being around the lifestyle and watching others enjoy is foreplay for most couples. watching and being watched is pretty safe and leads to incredible sex for most couples. talk about it honestly after each experience. Together you'll both decide how far you want to go. Do what you say and say what you do. Never forget one day down the road you'll need that same life bond and honesty in other ways. P.S. When I read her statement about if we ever do it we'll be trading up it made me think of my dear old Uncle Lloyd back in my teenage learning years. I think it was around 1965. He told me one day as we were fishing alone down at the creek. "Son, don't ever turn down a peace, you might miss the best peace you'll ever get." Now my Uncle Lloyd was a character but I can state for a fact without batting an eye the worst peace I ever had was wonderful. good luck Pal!