Hmmm.....we had talked about other women on and off for a few years.....then we had a spontaneous encounter. A year later we were having swinger converations from time to time....commenting on other couples...women...etc. We researched a few clubs ...called...NERVOUSLY... and made a reservation. ... We had a great time talking, observing, and eventually having sex together while a few people watched. ... The next few weeks at home were INSANE. Sex every night! .. At the party (it was a house party) we chatted alot with one couple..they invited us to a club for new years 2003.... Another Great time....but we did not connect with them, and we enjoyed watching and having sex together.....next few weeks were really sexually charged.... We just hit our second club a month ago...did the same thing as at the other two...but came closer to actually being with another couple. .........and we plan another visit in a week... So.......we're almost one year from our first visit and very happy with the pace!! .......We're having fun and when it feels right....we'll DO IT!!..hehe
