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I agree with all that has been said. As a single male, I would only add that, all involved need to understand and agree to the ground rules. Also that, "NO" means "NO", regardless of who says it. Good luck!!!

I don't think you are being "weird" at all, in fact, I praise you for your love and concern over her being able to receive sexual satisfaction, especially when you have physical limitations now. As for her being afraid of "liking it" goes, isn't that the point? We all have a "kinky" side and "like it", but, that doesn't make us weird or perverted, just know what we like and don't like sexually. Any 3rd person should understand that they are only there for the "fun", not, to take ownership or move-in. If they don't understand that beforehand, then, they are not the right person for you. Good Luck and keep in touch. Dusty

I had a couple FMF experiences several years ago. As a (now) single male, I am finding it difficult to meet new people.

I think that "Equal Rights" doesn't apply when dating, whether in the LS, or not. Even if I am asked out by a lady, I still make an honest effort to pick up the tab, if she insists, at least I have tried. I may be "old-fashioned", but I still strongly believe in "chivalry", which includes respecting my date, being a gentleman, and opening the car/building doors.

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Hi Jodi... I happen to live in MA, not very far from NJ. I read your post and the responses. I agree with all the advice you have been given here. BUT, don't give up looking on the Northern East Coast yet...LOL I have not been involved with the lifestyle as yet, but, would love to meet you sometime, just to discuss it. Would love to hear the "single" Lady's side of things. Jst

Hi All, A number of years ago I was involved in a FMF. I enjoyed it (go figure???) and have mentioned doing this with some more recent (ex-)GF's. I am now VERY single, and, from what I have read so far, it looks like getting involved will be hard (no pun intended). It looks like this is all geared toward couples. Even the clubs I have read about, so far, are "couple only". Am I right? or have I just not read far enough? Being new to this, I appreciate any and all answers. Thank you.