Let me start by saying I am with a man who has given me the best sex life of my life. We both love living this lifestyle and how much hotter it makes our sex - But there is an emptiness afterwards. We have played with several couples and a few singles. And hope to continue for a long time. I love watching him with another woman.He such a sexual man and knows just what a woman wants and needs. It is the hottest thing I have ever seen. I watch him give women everything they need to feel complete and desired. I also watch him give them everything he has problems giving me. We both came out of bad relationships and giving himself completely is hard for him. So why can he give so freely to them and not be able to give me the passion I want from him. I know he loves me but I want the kissing and caressing too. Please help me to understand.