Rgomez1738 15 Posted April 18, 2016 Hi I am new to this community I have been looking into cuckold videos for about 4 months now and am extremely aroused by it. I want to tell me wife about it but am worried about how she would react. How should I bring it up? I want us to to be in this lifestyle. Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,019 Posted April 18, 2016 I have always advised those for whom it is a new concept to use a direct approach -- ask her. By direct approach, I do not mean distracting her while she is watching her favorite TV program by saying, "Would you like to fuck other men?" Some have started with a way of sensing how much familiarity a spouse has with swing -- "Have you heard about swing and what do you think of people who might be engaged in activity like this?" I will, of course, also recommend that you read as much as you are able from the conversations that people have at this bulletin board. A lot of wisdom has been expressed about this every question. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,711 Posted April 18, 2016 Welcome to the Swingers Board! SW_PA's advice is good advice - ask but in a direct but indirect way, meaning don't just out of the blue ask her a very specific question about if she wants to have sex with other guys, but instead just bring up the topic of swinging in general and then just let that conversation progress naturally to wherever it will go. You both will learn a lot more about each other's thoughts on the subject if you do it that way. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,766 Posted April 18, 2016 "How do you feel about extramarital sex, Sweetheart?" Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,020 Posted April 18, 2016 Sometimes, an easier way to start talking about the subject is for both of you to start with a conversation about your fantasies. See what hers are and tell her what yours are. Then ask if she would be interested in making any of them come true. If she is, start with working on making HERS come true first then work your way towards yours... 4 Quote Share this post Link to post