Sister-in-Law

So my wife and I have been in the lifestyle for 3 years. We've set our boundaries and rules. I brought up my wife's sister to her to see how she would feel if I hooked up with her sister (he sister knows we're in the lifestyle). She told me she was fine with it but did not wish to watch or be involved (i.e if I'm going to fuck her do it away from her)

Shes been coming around more lately after a break up. Been a bit flirty. We are planning on hitting a hotel party next month and she expressed interest in coming along. I'm hoping to get together with her at the party.

Has anyone here hooked up with an in-law? Did it work out? Were there bad feelings afterward? My wife is very easy going I'm not too worried. But wanted other imput.

Thanks

I never have and never will. Even if one of my female in-laws and her husband were ok with it I still wouldn't do it.

I've known my SIL since she was 10. She's the youngest and my wife was the oldest of 5.

The first time I even thought about playing with her was when I was in my 30's and she was around 19. She'd came to visit and she and I spent a day together while my wife was at work. After a nice lunch at a nice restaurant, a few drinks, and then going back to the house and smoking some pot together, we did get a little touchy-feely but kept it at that.

Nothing ever happened again between us and she married a good guy and I know was completely faithful.

Well, three years ago he passed away unexpectedly. I know that she, 57 now, has no plans of another relationship. My wife and I have discussed that and wonder if she misses intimacy. I'm thinking that my wife and her sister may have discussed just that.

OK, yes, I've pondered the possibility of my wife and SIL agreeing that I might be of comfort to my SIL. If they ever approached me with the idea, I'd agree in a heartbeat.

What a cool idea OP!! Its kinda like bungee jumping where, with a slight miscalculation, you could go from an amazing thrill to a complete and utter disaster in a split second. I'd recommend strongly against both!

Oh, talk about a disaster just waiting to happen.

Hell of a lot more cons than pros in this scenario. My opinion would be to keep it as a fantasy.

Since we think that swinging with friends is a bad idea, how do you think we will feel about swinging with your wife's SISTER. NOTHING GOOD WILL COME FROM THIS. Walk away...no run away.

I'm on the side of not a good idea at all, WAY too much can go wrong there.

This seems decisively answered, for the love of god even Padoc and Napoleon agree.

This seems decisively answered, for the love of god even Padoc and Napoleon agree.

Hell must have frozen.

Oh, talk about a disaster just waiting to happen.

True! If ever you still would like to try, make sure to do a comprehensive personality, IQ, EQ, NPD assessment of your SIL. Only few can come out of it alive!

Is this the new definition for suicidal tendencies?

We have played with friends and so far it has worked out well. Many have told me not to on this forum.

Within our group there are those that play with family, and yes in-laws included. It looks like all is well with those involved.

Those who immediately say don’t do it don’t know the people involved. It is a head thing and what one person accepts is not what the next does.

The average person would say don’t swing, it only ends bad. This forum proves that is a fallacy.

I had two uncles that were swingers, first the older one and his wife, not much later his younger brother and wife joined them. Apparently they would all go to a cottage they had on a lake. I was still in high school but it was the talk of the family, mom and dad cautioned me and my older brother not to got to the cottage if invited. Eventually, the older one divorced, the wife let all know that she just couldn’t handle all the swinging; he married a younger woman not too much later. Then, after several years, the same with the younger brother. So, my suspicion would be that they swapped wives, did foursomes and moresomes. The older ones friend had gone in with him on the cabin and got him started in the swinging stuff.

We have played with friends and so far it has worked out well. Many have told me not to on this forum.

Within our group there are those that play with family, and yes in-laws included. It looks like all is well with those involved.

Those who immediately say don’t do it don’t know the people involved. It is a head thing and what one person accepts is not what the next does.

The average person would say don’t swing, it only ends bad. This forum proves that is a fallacy.

I don’t think it had anything to do with the make-up of the people involved. They could be the greatest, most openly sexual people on earth, however, there will be others in the family who are not. IF it ends badly those great people have something to hang over your head. Just like swinging with co-workers. Great for years, ends abruptly, person ends up becoming your boss, don’t let the door hit you in the ass. The average person may say don’t swing because it will end badly, and it may, but I’m not shitting where I eat. I can walk away from a bad swinging encounter and never see those people again.

We were friends before playing with several of our partners and became friends with others after playing. We never had a problem. Now we never played with relatives but, if the opportunity had presented itself, and we knew they were swingers, we probably would have.