SoFlaCouple 188 Posted February 4, 2014 In responses to newbies I have read a lot of suggestions about jointing a swinger site, but with so many great sites to choose from, how do the newbies figure out where to join? I have since discovered that different sites seem to have larger followings in different areas. If someone were to ask you for your recommendation for a site that has a lot of members in your areas, which site would you recommend, and what is your area? This is not meant to promote one site over any other, but to give people an idea of good sites in their specific area. I'll start.... In South Florida SDC seems to have a really strong following and sponsors A LOT of events. It seems most people we meet in the area either have an SDC (mostly) or SLS (some) profile. We have seen a lot of promotion lately by Kasidie, but have yet to check it out. Quote Share this post Link to post
funcoupledayton 2,707 Posted February 5, 2014 Swingerzonecentral is really popular in Ohio, Indiana and Kentucky Kasidie is particularly good for Vegas. Quote Share this post Link to post
mauijanedoe 1,414 Posted February 5, 2014 In the Northwest, it seems to be SLS and Kasidie, but only SLS seems to be involved enough to have their own nights at any of the local clubs. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,020 Posted February 5, 2014 Out here in California, the only site that really seemed to have a good selection of other couples was SLS. While other sites claimed to have lots of locals, after checking they really didn't have that much. Of course that was two+ years ago. Since then we really haven't looked at other sites (and still haven't gotten any contacts on any of the other sites) so it may have changed. Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,711 Posted February 6, 2014 Haven't spent a whole lot of time making comparisons, but SLS seems most popular in the Southeast. Quote Share this post Link to post
TwoAreLooking 58 Posted February 6, 2014 Swinger Zone Central and Swinglifestyle have been the most productive for us. We're in SE Michigan. Kasidie has just been annoying. Considering pulling down even the trifle of profile we have there. Quote Share this post Link to post
rvdudes 40 Posted February 6, 2014 In Saskatchewan, Canada it seems to be AFF and SwingTowns. Quote Share this post Link to post
Wornsilver 219 Posted February 6, 2014 We lived in Kansas City and SLS was, of course, ever present, but C4P (Club Fore Play) is really strong regionally with the center of their influence being Kansas City down to Oklahoma City. It is sort of like one of those weather maps where you lay the red oval over those two cities and the influence diminishes as you move away from that core. Quote Share this post Link to post
81lizard69 469 Posted February 6, 2014 Denver and the front range it seems that AFF is big and so is Kaside. When my aff membership ends I will move over to sls. Quote Share this post Link to post
SwingSetWife 442 Posted February 6, 2014 We are in NOLA and use SLS. We really have no desire to try any other sites because we like how uncomplicated sls is. Quote Share this post Link to post
Rompusplay 15 Posted February 6, 2014 As GoldCoCouple has mentioned already in California, along the coast/Bay Area, SLS has provided us with ample opportunities to meet sexy couples. We have also heard great things about the site Lifestyle Lounge from several couples. We like the lifetime membership option available on SLS and have had enough positive response that we don't feel a need to join another site....yet. Quote Share this post Link to post
Mochacino 188 Posted February 6, 2014 We are Southern Wisconsin and by far the best success we have had is on SLS. We have profiles on there as well as Kasadie, SDC, Desire, and CND. We check the other ones (maybe) weekly. But we use SLS daily. It has the best selection of events and groups by far as well. Quote Share this post Link to post
eriefun 15 Posted February 11, 2014 We are in northern Ohio and it seems SLS is very popular. The only time we use Kasidie and SDC is for travel. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest smithvillecoupl Posted February 11, 2014 We lived in Kansas City and SLS was, of course, ever present, but C4P (Club Fore Play) is really strong regionally with the center of their influence being Kansas City down to Oklahoma City. It is sort of like one of those weather maps where you lay the red oval over those two cities and the influence diminishes as you move away from that core. Yes, C4P seems to be the big site here in the Kansas City area. I hadn't even heard of SLS or Kasidie until tuning into podcasts recently. Quote Share this post Link to post
stonemtncouple 45 Posted February 12, 2014 We live in Georgia and travel the USA. We have profiles on SDC, SLS, Kasidie. We get 10 times the action on SLS where ever we are compared to SDC and while we love Kasidie we get almost nothing out of it. SLS is the most primitive and awkward of the three so go figure? Must be the name! Pops up first on google I think. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest smithvillecoupl Posted February 12, 2014 I wonder how much SLS is used in the Kansas City area. I may have to check that out. Quote Share this post Link to post
IEcouple 222 Posted February 19, 2014 Kasidie seems to be taking over in SoCal, much to our dismay. Quote Share this post Link to post
kellimc 214 Posted February 27, 2014 Kasidie is a great site, but I left it because it seemed to be very Colorado-centric. I've heard that it is becoming much more popular in California and Vegas now, so I may give it another try. SLS and Lifestyle Lounge have always been pretty good for me too. AFF is so full of fakes that it would probably be a waste of time for anyone who is serious. Quote Share this post Link to post
littlebit8402 15 Posted February 27, 2014 What about the Houston, TX area?? So far the Mr. and I haven't had any luck with any sites for Houston. Quote Share this post Link to post
IEcouple 222 Posted February 28, 2014 Kasidie is a great site, but I left it because it seemed to be very Colorado-centric. I've heard that it is becoming much more popular in California and Vegas now, so I may give it another try. SLS and Lifestyle Lounge have always been pretty good for me too. AFF is so full of fakes that it would probably be a waste of time for anyone who is serious. Kasidie absorbed the local site we used to be on, unfortunately. We let our free trial run out because we weren't impressed. I've bitched about Kasidie on other threads, so I won't repeat myself. Quote Share this post Link to post
RunSilentRunDee 127 Posted March 2, 2014 I don't have a "recommendation," but here's my experience so far. Mind you, I am a married guy who is here for solo activity. So my experience might not be yours. My (paid, lifetime) Kasidie membership hasn't turned up anyone I didn't already know from other social networks. No one has approached me on Kasidie. None of my attempts to approach has been successful. Kasidie does have a "business card" template; I have printed some cards from it. I'm not going to close the account; having paid for the lifetime membership I have nothing to gain by closing the account. My (free) SLS membership hasn't yet turned up anyone I do know from other social networks. Again, none of my attempts to approach has been successful. I have been approached, recently, by a "solo wife" who lives several states away and who was looking at travelling through my town a few weeks later. Her travel plans fell through -- family medical emergency -- but she still seems interested if/when another trip comes along. (My wife thinks that her "excuse" was genuine.) That's a "plus" for SLS. Have not found a "business card" template on SLS. After several failed attempts last September, today I finally managed to register a (free) account at C4P ("ClubForePlay.com"), of course as a single male. I am "wowed" by the number of profiles in my local area here. (I recognize some from SLS; that's OK by me.) Time will tell how well that will work out. C4P also has a "business card" template, and I plan to print some cards from it Real Soon Now. I have also recently opened (free) accounts at three sites that are clearly inter-linked: Adult Friend Finder, Horny Wife, and FbookHookUps. As a free member, I can only reply to incoming messages -- can't send messages on my own. I have gotten lots of "notifications" that xxx has viewed my profile. I'm not sure that all of these profiles actually exist; and I'm not prepared to risk my money on the gamble that they are. If I do find that SLS and/or C4P prove productive -- that they do lead to face to face contacts with people who are reasonable prospects -- then I will probably think seriously about purchasing a membership there. I don't mind going through a "probationary" period with local people who have not encountered me and who don't really know me. That's only prudent of them! I do mind paying for something that gives me nothing. Quote Share this post Link to post
stonemtncouple 45 Posted March 3, 2014 Hi Runsilent... Years ago I played as a single guy. THE most productive site I found at the time 2003-8 was ashleymadison. I had to pay but I got results. If I were you today playing as a single Id use free singles sites like plenty of fish and ok cupid. Why go on swinging couples sites? Single men are practically scorned by majority of swinging couples. We are the exception and really enjoy MFM play with respectful single men. If your looking for couples to play with try craigs list for free. Quote Share this post Link to post
RunSilentRunDee 127 Posted March 3, 2014 (Nods) I have tried all you mentioned except Ashley Madison. People on CL, here at least, are looking for a "hung" (8+") bi guy under 45. Or aren't (to me) HWP. POF seems mostly to have wives who want to cheat. OKC, for me, is like Kasidie: no contacts there whom I had not already met elsewhere. *shrug* I found that frustrating, so I have been widening my searches & my "advertising." SLS gave me a pleasant surprise. We'll see what else emerges. I'll add that I'm aware that "swingers" are not made from cookie cutters. Different folks want different strokes. Some folks here will have no interests in common with mine, and won't see why on earth I should be here. And other folks may have plenty in common with me. Might not be lots of folks, but I suspect that some are out there. So, I figure it's worth becoming visible to them. :-) Quote Share this post Link to post
monkeycouple 15 Posted March 7, 2014 Hey littlebit8402, TryHoustonTexasSwingers.com Quote Share this post Link to post
johnstarx5 61 Posted April 12, 2014 North East Ohio here. The club I attend post their events on SLS so I tend to use that as my primary site, Quote Share this post Link to post
CandyCane 33 Posted April 12, 2014 We live around the Houston,Texas area. Couplestouch.com is the most popular site in the area. Quote Share this post Link to post
Chicup 38 Posted April 13, 2014 SLS is an awful site on a lot of levels, BUT almost everyone seems to have a profile there, even if they have a preferred site that is not SLS. Quote Share this post Link to post
junglecouple 127 Posted April 13, 2014 maybe it geographical, but SLS works well for us. We've had many pleasant hookups, of course not all were great, but so far, over the last few years, it's worked very well for us.. We're not club people though and having owned one for 11 yrs, we're not likely to become interested. We drop by a local swing club every couple of months, just so the lady can take her clothes off and dance, but seldom find anyone that we care to mingle with at clubs. Quote Share this post Link to post
guest_xx1 15 Posted April 19, 2014 what sites are more popular on the west coast? Quote Share this post Link to post
Night Lover 15 Posted April 30, 2014 I actually found a new site based out of Vancouver! I'm thrilled! For anyone in BC or Washington, I suggest you check it out Lifestyle Swingers Dating for Swinging Couples Quote Share this post Link to post
orgyman1 16 Posted January 7, 2015 Florida man...awesome for swingin' :-) Quote Share this post Link to post
stonemtncouple 45 Posted January 8, 2015 As a married couple looking for single men for MFM threesomes we have had the most success on SDC. We are selective wanting business men type only. We have active profiles on SLS, AFF, Kaside, and SDC. AFF is mostly ugly married and desperate men. SLS is ok but a poorly built site. SDC appears to have what we are looking for. Kasidie is dead in Georgia. Did post on Craigs list once and was over whelmed with replies! If I didnt have a job I could spend all day screening the replies. Quote Share this post Link to post
CB&DD 216 Posted January 8, 2015 We're in southeast New Mexico, basically on the NM/TX border. SLS seems to be the most popular one. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Ready2dewit Posted January 8, 2015 SLS seems to be the most geographically evenly spread, I am not on Kasidie but have heard from people who are that it is more West Coast centered. Quote Share this post Link to post
MrDiscover 802 Posted January 9, 2015 In the Netherlands, SDC is quite popular, lots of international contacts too. In vanilla internet boards, where (adult)sites may not be listed/promoted/stated, it is sometimes referred to as Dart Club. :-) Other sites are chatgirl, swingersnederland, regioswingers or excitant.nl e.g. MrDiscover Quote Share this post Link to post
swinging4fun 16 Posted January 10, 2015 In Singapore AFF (90% fakes and flakes), SDC good for travelling couples theadulthub.com met some nice couples on this site Quote Share this post Link to post