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Anyone ever been to a swingers hotel takeover?

 

We've done Desire Pearl, and loved it. Wondering if a hotel takeover can be anything like a "tide us over" sort of weekend until we can get away to Desire again.

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My wife and I have participated in hotel take-overs in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Morgantown, West Virginia, and Buffalo, New York. We have no idea what happens at Desire Pearl. but we've had really great fun at these hotel take-overs.

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I guess it depends upon where you are and who is sponsoring it. We participated in several hotel takeovers sponsored by APG in King of Prussia and had a blast each time. Once we moved south, we attended one at the Indigo in Ft Myers sponsored by SDC. That was a good time as well.

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We have been to Desire several times including our honeymoon. THAT is a blog topic all by itself!

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The group I go to always gets a suite here in Vegas. Aria is nice and so is Cosmo. Most are actually nice. lol

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Looking at a trip to Vegas in July - so this is very appreciated. Was hoping very much to have an experience a bit better than what others say we'd get at the Green Door, etc.

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Even NBA players enjoy a pick-game of playground basket ball now and then.

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Well, we absolutely loved our stay at Desire RM and plan to return soon. The two hotel experiences did not begin to compare. We found them to be really tacky - think 'spring break at Walmart'. One was a popular HWP group -the other not. Hope there are better ones than the two we selected. At this point it would be tough to convince her to try again.

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The Vibe takeovers in Nashville are well worth checking out. Great people and the hotel is decent. The staff does a great job of keeping out those who shouldn't be there and you are able to have a lot of fun (indoor pool, great party area, etc).

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Even NBA players enjoy a pick-game of playground basket ball now and then.

 

You made me spit out my coffee! :lol:

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Hotel takeovers are ok as long as you know what may take place. We are lifestyle cruise veterans (have taken 9 and 3 more booked) as well as avid Desire customers. Our hotel takeover experience is nothing like the cruises or resorts. Things we did not like about the hotel takeovers:

1. Cliquish groups - not very open to those that are attending the hotel takeover the first time. We heard this from others as well.

2. Pool not clothing optional - not even top optional. For a takeover, you would think there would be some additional fun with the pools during the day. But was a very vanilla experience for the pool time.

3. Hard to link up - one restaurant in the hotel so many scattered at dinner time to parts unknown off property. At the resort and cruises, meal times were another opportunity to meet other couples and link up.

 

We had friends book a hotel takeover coming up in May in Cancun (not a Desire property). We told them to ask about the pool clothing optional and, sure enough, the pool is NOT clothing optional. Really takes away from a true lifestyle experience that can be found at resorts and cruises geared to the lifestyle.

 

BTW, we don't have a hard time meeting people. We are official greeters for one agency that books lifestyle events (volunteer greeters) and hosts VIP parties. We love meeting people.

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Hotel takeovers are ok as long as you know what may take place. We are lifestyle cruise veterans (have taken 9 and 3 more booked) as well as avid Desire customers. Our hotel takeover experience is nothing like the cruises or resorts. Things we did not like about the hotel takeovers:

1. Cliquish groups - not very open to those that are attending the hotel takeover the first time. We heard this from others as well.

2. Pool not clothing optional - not even top optional. For a takeover, you would think there would be some additional fun with the pools during the day. But was a very vanilla experience for the pool time.

3. Hard to link up - one restaurant in the hotel so many scattered at dinner time to parts unknown off property. At the resort and cruises, meal times were another opportunity to meet other couples and link up.

 

We had friends book a hotel takeover coming up in May in Cancun (not a Desire property). We told them to ask about the pool clothing optional and, sure enough, the pool is NOT clothing optional. Really takes away from a true lifestyle experience that can be found at resorts and cruises geared to the lifestyle.

 

BTW, we don't have a hard time meeting people. We are official greeters for one agency that books lifestyle events (volunteer greeters) and hosts VIP parties. We love meeting people.

 

 

I can see all of this happening. Absolutely.

 

It depends very much on the group. The one we finally found, which is very much a local, instate crowd, is very welcoming.

 

While there are established friendships, and circles, all over the place, a newbie is more likely to be introduced within a circle than shunned.

 

We always have a party floor, and a closed dinner/dance so there is plenty time and space to mingle.

 

The pool is a toss up . IF we manage to rent all of the rooms, somewhat less than 70, then we have the pool and all floors to ourselves with the desk providing security at the entry. If there are Vanillas in the place then we need to respect them , and wear suits in the pool and wait to get back upstairs to get naked. This is really no big deal for us.

For our upcoming party we have two complete floors. That will be tagged PRIVATE PARTY

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There's a big Hotel Takeover in Niagara Falls, Ontario for Valentine's every year. Feb 1-3 in 2019. It is a true Hotel Takeover, where the hallways, pool, hottub, dance floor etc is all clothing optional. Why not take a quick trip north this winter and see how the Canadians party! (Google Valentines in Niagara)

Likewise, not a hotel, but there is a small resort north east of Toronto by a couple of hours that does Lifestyle takeovers as well, called Sandy Bottoms Resort. Totally clothing optional, with a pool & hottub, small private lake and plenty of room to spread out. It's a much more 'intimate' affair with about 40 couples each week. Not at ALL like going to Hedo or Desire... just a comfortable summer retreat.

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