phxswingcurious 19 Posted November 25, 2016 So my wife and I decided to get checked for STIs before starting with swinging. She also switched from the pill to a copper IUD to quit messing with her hormones and for more foolproof bc. When she did that, they tested her for gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis (did I spell any of those right?) and all were negative. Last week I was tested for all the Heps, all the HSVs, and HIV and ALL ARE NEGATIVE!!! I have saved the test result to my phone lol. So we have our first date a week from today and all 4 of us text flirty and naughty things to each other already. Would it be hot for me to announce I'm disease free? Or should I just sit on this info and have it if asked? I kinda think it's hot but I don't want them to think I'm trying to talk them into bareback or anything. I do want her to feel comfortable swallowing my cum though lol. Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,711 Posted November 25, 2016 I think I'd probably just keep that info available to have if asked. Maybe just me, but talking about test results is more of a turn-off than a turn-on, at least when it comes to the sexting leading up to the big event. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
angelkin 1,326 Posted November 25, 2016 Glad you're excited and took steps to prepare for your new adventures...I never ask about test results...they are only a snapshot in time and only good until the next encounter. I wouldn't bring it up and you probably won't be asked. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,728 Posted November 26, 2016 I would keep the test results under your hat, unless asked. I know you are half kidding, but I never expect playmates to swallow. Due to the risk of disease and just not liking it, I try to give an impending orgasm warning and let my partner decide where it will go. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,019 Posted November 26, 2016 I too commend you on taking these steps. As Angelkin says, a clinical result represents a condition that might have changed. It occurs to me that if you said to prospective playmates, "we have test results," it might leave them feeling awkward as in, "geez, we don't. Now what?" 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
funcoupledayton 2,707 Posted November 30, 2016 I think it is good to know for your own peace of mind. I would share if asked. Know that you are at risk for contracting hsv1 through oral sex if you are negative since most adults you will encounter are positive. It's not that big of a deal, but is a risk. No one I know chooses to swallow or not based on perceived sti risk. As others have said, giving a warning just before coming is the polite thing. She can choose what to do with the semen. Quote Share this post Link to post
funcoupledayton 2,707 Posted November 30, 2016 You should also consider getting the Hep B vaccine. Quote Share this post Link to post