Yellowstarburst

I completely agree. Thank you for your reply. ?

Ah, I see. I was just wondering. I got sterilized after my second child at 26 yrs old. I would also use condoms with other men.

As far as I can see, condoms are highly recommended for this lifestyle and of course regular birth control. Do surprise pregnancies occur often? If so, how would you approach this situation if you were the person pregnant? Should I ask male swinging partners if they are pro-choice or is that weird?