I am a single female swinger (although I am very attached to my soulmate and have his blessing) i first started swinging because during a very frank discussion with the love of my life, we talked about our real fantasies. his was to see me with another woman with the possibility of making it a threesome. my fantasy was to explore my bi curious side - threesome or not. Soooo, i got on the internet and found some swinger sites, clubs, materials, etc... as I had more and more experiences, i was grateful that not only did i have the foresight to acknowledge who and what i am, what i want, but that i am honest enough to admit that i enjoy the experiences. At times i do feel a bit left out,because most of the people at the club i go to are couples and therefore feel a bit of an outsider. I also have another reason why I have continued swinging... I am a single female in the armed services - literally the only one in my particular platoon... and unfortunately at this moment am deployed - stateside- some of the males in my company see me as "relief" until they can see their other halves again - no I dont go there, but they make it known that as a female - i could help them out in certain ways...they make me feel dirty....i go to the clubs because i can explore my sexuality freely and because it is something i and my boyfirend both want and i sure dont feel dirty...i feel free...excitedthe people i meet dont see me as a convenience, but a person with a brain and something to offer besides a convenient body....i have never felt ashamed in a club, nor have i felt dirty or disrespected...I look forward to meeting someone new every week - whether we "click" sexually or not....aint a darn thing to do with any type of discrimination....