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  • Birthday 03/02/1984

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    female in poly family
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  1. I understand, I'm not into stranger sex at all. But I do like being "used," the one chosen over two other women in our family to simply satisfy a man's desire for an orgasm and ejaculation. This usually happens as a morning quickie. The best times for me are when I'm pulled aside by one, then the other, solely for their sexual release. It's very flattering and satisfying for me, even though the reason may be that Clair and Lora are not readily accessible. Genuine lovemaking comes later. BTW, I also sometimes desire aggressive Lesbian sex. Anyone else?
  2. You and your husband seem to be on the same wavelength, a very good one. But this caught my attention: I love, love, love it when David or Red (both in great shape) tell me about a woman who he'd like to fuck, or he thinks I'd enjoy fucking, or even better, someone he'd want to watch me have sex with. They just don't do it enough.
  3. I wish that we lived in a world where showing our bodies, including openly having sex in front of others, and discussing sex lives was as normal as talking about food and eating with others. But alas, it isn't and doing so would have serious social and legal consequences. Otherwise, I would love to discuss and display the sexual aspects of myself with others. But if the world were open to it and everyone did it, no one would be interested in my body, my sexual performance, or my sex life.
  4. Have you tried role playing in this regard with your husband or any of your play partners? It would be a good way to calibrate the reality with the fantasy. Also, your husband's concern is warranted, but is the plan for him not to be there? Otherwise, them being sexually aggressive with you doesn't seem as worrying as a BDSM situation. Overall though, I agree with you. It is sometimes very satisfying to be on one side or the other of aggressive sex; for me either with another woman, me towards a man, or multiple men towards me.
  5. Ok, so I must ask, especially the men: have you ever had sloppy seconds in her bum hole? What were your thoughts? How did that make you feel? I've done it, not a lot, a couple times a year, mostly in the early days when it was just David, Red, and me, we were figuring out our sex lives and I was trying to please them both all of the time. After saying all that, for me it was nothing special, the guys came really quickly either first or second.
  6. Sometimes the spouse not being there, alone play, is a good experience for all.
  7. My perspective is that every one is inherently non-monogamous and would enjoy "to be shared and share." You're "just not there," yet because of all the societal and religious baggage, from feelings that it's not moral to it will destroy my marriage to I can't share my husband to I'm not a slut. So for some it's difficult, really hard, to overcome those barriers, especially if you're not young and are already married. My journey began with me being romantically and sexually involved with two men in my early twenties and marrying one of them while keeping the other, so for me it was easier, making me feel loved and powerful. I leave it to others here to give advice on how to begin in the lifestyle as an already married couple, those experienced in doing so. Clubs, house parties, websites. All I can add is that it is well worth it. In the meanwhile until you form a plan of action, I suggest that you do indeed not tease your husband with fantasies, and he needs to learn to put your sexual desires first.
  8. As are those born by Caesarean section.
  9. From my female perspective, after David or Red has had sex with another woman, I want sex with him A) to get what she had just gotten (his cum), or what's left of it, and B) to show that I can please him at least as well as she does.
  10. Hey, this is America! Most people here don't even know what "Tetons" mean.
  11. I'm not close to being a deep throater, so even a normal dick isn't going in my mouth all the way, just most of the way. But guys don't complain, I work it good then they want my pussy.
  12. For us as well, oral is more postplay than foreplay. And an essential part of round two for men.
  13. There are titties all over the place here!
  14. Even when skiing, I'm thinking about sex, Lesbian sex.
  15. The spread from the "average" is the standard deviation, and I agree that it isn't large, most men seem to be in the middle. That's why people are so fascinated by the outliers.
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