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  1. #26
    Jay's Bumper Buddy ShellyM's Avatar
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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    Quote Originally Posted by Tia Vampire View Post
    We'll never take one for the team and meet up with a couple before seeing their pics.
    Agreed. I was talking with a gentleman just TODAY that actually thought I would meet him without seeing a picture. I don't THINK SO! He didn't even ask me if we play alone, which we do NOT at this juncture with single men LOL.
    Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho
    Shelly

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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We will never play with a couple that isn't married. Did that once and the other woman spent her g/g time telling the wife how badly he treated her and how she wanted out of the relationship. Man, we shoulda saw that one coming, but we both were blinded by the other woman's beauty and charm. And by the way, she's still with him.

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    Swingers Board Addict willyoats's Avatar
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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    Literally, the only "I"ll never..." situation that has come up in all of our years in swinging was at a club when my wife went off with first one guy alone and then later another guy alone without asking me if I wanted to come with them. I never minded if she did it once, but for some reason, twice in one night without me being involved either time got to me. I didn't care how many guys she took on in any one night, but I needed to be involved with it.

  4. #29

    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We will never go to a hotel room with a couple that we don't intend to swing with. Early on, more than once we ended up in a situation that was very awkward to get out of because we didn't just say no while we were still at the social.

    We will never serve hot wings or any jalapeno-laden foods at a swinger party. Guess what? If it burns your mouth, it will burn elsewhere too! Bean dip is not a great idea either .

    I will never wear something to a social for the sake of being sexy. Too many times I've left with hurting feet because the heels were too high, or was cranky because I was cold all night, or was otherwise uncomfortable because it was too short, cut off my circulation or whatever.

    I'm sure there are more, but those are the biggies right now.

    Pepper
    "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

  5. #30
    Better than Ice Cream two4youinswva's Avatar
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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We'll never go ahead and hit a club when we're not feeling it, expecting our mood to change upon arrival.
    I don't have time for dinner. Someone on the internet is wrong!

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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    I'll never DVP, in case anyone was wondering.

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    Swingers Board Addict angelkin's Avatar
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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We will never (again) compromise on what we want in a playmate for the sake of playing.
    There's time for sleep when you're dead.

  8. #33

    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    I'll never take one for the team again, did it once *shiver* and will never do it again.


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    Swingers Board Addict MrsPandMe's Avatar
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    Default re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We will never again get into a swing situation that has a higher ratio of men to women.

  10. #35

    Default Re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    Quote Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew View Post
    We will never go to a hotel room with a couple that we don't intend to swing with. Early on, more than once we ended up in a situation that was very awkward to get out of because we didn't just say no while we were still at the social.
    This would be us. We made that mistake once before early on and we've been careful not to make it again.
    Not all those who wander are lost

  11. #36

    Default Re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    I'll never...

    drink too much before a play date...

    swing with vanilla friends...

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    Default Re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We'll never assume both members of the other couple we're meeting for the first time are on the same page.

    On more than one occasion, we've set-up an initial meet-up for drinks using e-mail and texts, only to find the woman has NO clue we're not her husband's co-workers or long-lost school pal. We've learned to ask something along the lines of "Both of you know we're all meeting as potential bedroom play-partners, right?" (Or words to that effect!)
    The Muppets performed in the Benny Vandergast Memorial Theatre.

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    Default Re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    I'll never play with the couple whose husband has bi tendencies and wants to have a sexual experience with me. I'm not into having sex with another man.

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    Default Re: Swinging mistakes: I'll Never... Or... I'll Never Do that Again!

    We will never again bring a guy back to the room for MFM if we are staying in a nice, old B&B. Those rooms just aren’t sound proof and you have to face all of those people at breakfast the next morning as they try to figure out what couple was next to them and or above them.

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