As far as our personal preferances are concerned, we prefer the gentlemen that we meet to be in their mid 20's to late 30's. That seems to be the age range that we feel comfortable with. We tried a couple times with guys that were in there mid to late 40's but ran into issues with more than one of them comparing (wife) to their kids. Yes, we know that it was just a couple of guys that did that but we have not run into that with the age range that we prefer. So that is just our preferance. We both had the fantasy of her being with an older guy but I guess you can say it was just best left at a fantasy.