With my wife I have no problem, we have a great sex life. I have used all three ED pills and they work great, when with my wife. As soon as we get with another couple I just have no luck getting it to stay hard. This is a huge problem for me. It has to be in my head and I dont know how to get it out. We have started to meet single guys and I dont seem to have a problem staying hard while we take care of my cant get enough, screaming, squirting and can cum over and over again all night long wife. Hope to figure out someday how not to go soft around other females.