three words bbw==bodacious bedroom warriors lol..... never let weight get you down. being 5ft 5 and anywhere from 190 to 210 myself i have been called fat been called obese but one thing stands out.i never lack for playmates. as many have pointed out its all in how you carry yourself.everyones taste run different and that will never change....and god knows theres enough varietys out there for everyone to have their slice.and yes some do like the larger size and some don,t to each their own take care and relax and have fun