We have been to temptations. Fun resort and you don't have to swing. I am in a similar situation to you. I thought and continue to think about 3 options, 1. Giving up on the idea and getting past it (harder than it seems for me) 2. Splitting up with her to figure myself out 3. Staying and trying to deal with it - keep making suggestions and hope. Discussed the 3 options with her and she is trying to meet me half way so thus the temptations trip, and a few since then. I love her of course so would prefer we stay together.