Twistedmutt

Oddball on both sides here. My wife and I liked MFM, I hardly played with other ladies at all preferring to have a good partner in lust help drive my favorite woman/porn star well into multiorgasmic. That caused a little tension with couples feeling offended and made most single guys more aggressive or cynical. Now with her entirely uninterested in sex from depression and menopause I'm the single guy. I'm not particularly handsome,or ugly, I'm not of the sought after minority of blessed packages and not the playboy who can wine,dine and gift. We werent quite so critical but most people now are. Add being painfully shy for a grown damn man and it's all mayhem and no myschyf for me.

Older Couple you nailed the color thing. And that's what it is-color not race ( wouldnt another race make it bestiality or extraterrestrial) My wife and I liked MFM 3somes,not Cuckold and wasn't even called Hotwife yet being no internet. Yes Im averagely endowed but wife has no size fetish so it was me who preferred larger but no shaming or humiliation was involved (or tolerated) We aren't racist,and I dont mean we have an obligatory noncaucasian friend, both very nonjudgemental just sort of post hippy freedom loving working class kids,married young and no kids for 4 yrs so plenty of us time. As mentioned above not all black guys have BBCs. Once the net took off it was easier to find FBs.I liked the drastic contrast of dark and pink so tended to line up black guys. Heres where the nonracism comes in. What began as Hotwifing became Cuckold and soon after came the white husbands begging to be shamed and/or sissified so of course black guys developed an "I own your pussy now" persona whether just role play or actual ego. My wife didn't react well to this,I figured it for a fad that would pass when reason kicked in. I'm not often wrong about human nature but this time I botched it badly,as any porn site will show you. Its amazing that at this insanely "race" divided time in society that the interracial sex craze has jumped by magnitudes. Again you don't get much less racist than me,learned more wisdom from older black guys than white actually and I was a kid during the late 60s civil "unrest", but thats my point- racism is racism. There is no reverse racism its ALL racism. If youre into humiliation or dominance fine! Call it that. Dont add to the smoldering powder keg or fuel the racists to hate even more. And for christ sake leave the majority of men with less than 7.5 inches ( yeah google it) out of the "sissy" category or I foresee alot of well hung ego hounds with wired jaws