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Thank you! On oral, she's hesitant as she's concerned about health safety.Same with having sex too (despite use of condoms). I think she might be game for me having sex with her while she gives someone a HJ or blows me while someone fingers her... Also thx for the sharing facts about birds ,mammals, etc. Very interesting to note how the society has made us believe what's right vs wrong when compared to what our biology and psychology says!

thank you! I don't want to rush anything. I'm happy to continue with soft swapping, both get pleasure/excitement out of it, and then see where it goes!! Soft MFM was precisely what I was thinking. Me having sex with her while another guy plays with her tits, she giving a HJ, etc.

Guilty because it was her first time being sexually involved with another guy... I've been talking to her about it and that she has nothing to feel guilty about and that she needs to enjoy being admired and that guys LOVE to play with her.. told her this is what guys think when they see her in outfits where she's showing a lot of skin/cleavage. She LOVES to tease and that someone just acted on their thoughts that night... She's cool now.

Sharing a few updates here reflecting on some recent experiences Few weeks ago, we were at a LS event and it was a good evening. Lots of exhibitionism from the Mrs that was much appreciated by the crowd that evening. In the last couple of visits, we had "progressed" from playing in a private room to a play room with others watching.. It was AMAZING!!! Last visit, we were getting ready to leave. Honestly, not much action in terms of others seeing us, and I was itching for that. So, we were intentionally sitting at a spot where folks can get a really good look at her topless view and with a pair of DDs, it's kind of hard to miss I'm already excited at others checking her out and then one gentleman approaches her. Gives her some really nice compliments and sits next to her. All along, super respectful and asking for permission before doing anything or even saying anything. After asking for permission to give her compliments, he asked if he can get a hug. They had a nice, long hug with her tits tightly compressed against his chest. Some oohs and aaahs already. Few more compliments later, he asks if he can feel her breasts. I tell him it's up to her. She says yes. He takes his hands to her boobs, feels it nicely, cups it and enjoys thoroughly along the way. He whispers into her ear few more compliments and asks her if it's ok for him to suck her boobs. All along, she's honestly in a state of shock. No other guy has ever touched her boobs. She says yes to sucking her boobs. He goes on to suck her right boob. I'm all crazy horny at this time. I couldn't control and went on to suck her left boob. So here we are, in a very visible spot, with two guys taking on each side of her boobs and she's just closing her eyes and taking it all in... It was already everything I wanted... EVER... He then asks, what we like - see, be seen, etc. She said both. We proceed to one of the playrooms. I begin to take her from behind. she's completely naked of course. he is seeing her DD boobs bouncing and moving erotically as I take her on in doggy position. He immediately pulls his pant down, and begins to stroke at us having sex. I dont even know how to react at this. Overwhelmed is an understatement. He asks if he can take a look at her pussy. She shows him. No touching involved. He indicates to his dick and asks her if she wants to give him a BJ. She wasn't ready. Instead, she grabs his dick and strokes him. He is in another world, clearly! We then tell him this is the first time ever she has been sexually involved with another man.. He just couldn't believe it and passes a comment about being a forbidden fruit, etc. We finish up and leave. She was stunned, shocked and definitely a feeling of guilt was seen in her. WE've been talking. all good and she kinda wants more now Still very clear guidelines on being "soft". But been thinking of creative moves/experiences... Let's see how things go I can't even explain my joy and feelings on seeing my wife being enjoyed by another man... I know she was more shocked and in awe and so perhaps didn't "enjoy" as much.. hopefully second time around, that shock element will be absent and she can enjoy Would love to hear your comments

Thanks! Definitely having a blast already and hoping for the right evolution - however slow/fast it may be. At times, she talks about how ridiculous it is for human beings to be thought of as monogamous. She quotes history and the working of the brain, etc. and that we are MADE to be curious and explore and that monogamy was a societal thing that got picked up along the way. Anyway Appreciate your comments.. really helps!

It is still talk... I sense it is waiting for the right time/situation/individual...

We are a M38/F37 couple married and know each other for 20 years. We've been our only partners - from kissing to sex. Few years ago, I helped bring out the hidden sexiness and exhibitionist nature of my wife. Ever since, she's been ROCKING it with clothes, looks that are super seductive, inviting, teasing - even to normal outings like to a mall or grocery store. Not over the top for common places but sporting short shorts, mini skirts, definitely cleavage showing tops. She has very attractive DD racks and an athletic body. We've been having so much fun just doing that and I just simply love and get hard when other guys look at her. When we are having sex, we have dirty talk with me mentioning names of guys that constantly flirt with her... she tells me that she loves others playing with her tits, nipples, etc. I know it started because she knew I like to hear that, but deep down I think she loves it too! However, she maintains a strong position on nobody else fucking her or me.. and we are both ok with that... Recently, few months ago, took the plunge and went to a LS club. Very nice experience. She felt at home exposing her ass, boobs, nipples, getting frisky overall. After some dancing (just us) that put on a nice show to others watching, we went to a private room. Though the room had curtains, we kept it open. She isn't a huge fan of bright light during sex... however, managed it ok and I just LOVED it when guys were standing out to watch her...I would ram her from behind and with her on her knees and hands, the view that someone got of her boobs shaking and dancing while I fucked her made me SO hard. And then, she'd ride me giving those watching an amazing view of her ass. I'd constantly lick her boobs/nipples - both in the private room and in the public space.. In another visit, the private room was occupied and we ended up going to a room with other folks playing.. It was amazing to even enter... we did our thing, I ate her, she gave me a BJ and it was fun to hear others make sounds... i'd do it again.. after being in the play rooms, we'd walk around and she'd be close to naked and seeing other guys watch her made me so fucking hard.... she's very shy and doesn't flirt or make eye contact with many... very rare...some day, I hope to see her flirt and have some fun... I want it for her first. I wouldn't mind it either

Very prescriptive, thanks! The challenge is, she is too shy to take the first step.. I get your point though! We'll be patient and let it play out. Hopefully there'll be slow but steady progress as we go on... But we are having fun as it is!!!

very calming and reassuring to see your replies Thank you. Yes, we'll definitely update... For now, really enjoying the sexually charged up ambience, wifey showing a lot and both of us enjoying it... last time we went, she wore my shirt - completely unbuttoned, a teeny-tiny thong and a knot for the shirt... with a DD rack, it was soo much fun seeing others enjoy the views!! Q: How do I invite/let others know it's ok to talk/touch her (with her permission of course). Sorry too many noob questions..

Hi, We are new to the lifestyle and wanted to share our experiences (nobody else to report to ) We are based out of Seattle and have been going to Sapphire. Love the atmosphere, very laid back, clean, and nice people all around. We aren't into playing with other couples. We primarily go to watch and be watched. Wife loves to wear sexy, skimpy clothes and is rather attractive! We love to dance giving everyone a glimpse of her rack, booty, and just having a good time overall. The play rooms are really nice and clean. We like to have some sex and don't mind others watching. Initially, we went to a semi-private room with curtains open.. And just last time, went to a shared play room with few other parties having fun.. One weekend, there was one gentleman (visiting from out of state) who had a really good conversation with us. We didn't know he couldn't get to the play areas as a single male and had to be accompanied there. Also, wife is rather shy. While she likes to show off and tease, she doesn't necessarily engage. Also we haven't been exposed to situations like this and so quite frankly didn't know how to react. We've been there a few times now and love it... A fun, "don't care" atmosphere where everyone's having fun. Guys and gals give my wife a lot of compliments! she enjoys that. Nobody has ever touched or behaved out of the norm. Very impressed with that. A few casual rubs in the dance floor and we dont mind it and it was nothing more than at the night club.. more opportunistic and due to "crowd" than creepy.. not sure what else to share... so many questions still Is it ok to go to only watch and be watched? I know for a fact that the wife entertains a few by her looks and teasing outfits Love to hear your thoughts, suggestions, anything