We recently had our first real swinging experience!! Full swap. Lots of fun, awkward and amazing. It poked at all our insecurities, but my husband and I were both surprised by how ok we were with it, and how much it turned up our connection, and desire for each other. So here’s where I keep getting hung up. She keeps asking to him to lunch, or coffee. Just him and her. Originally I thought it was fine, (pre full swap) and would help him be a little less awkward with her. But the fact that she keeps wanting to go out with him exclusively, has me a little bothered. I trust him 100% and he would tell her no if I asked him to. So I’m trying to figure out if this is an insecurity I need to work on. Is this kind of one on one dateing a normal thing for swinging couples?
