When we decided to start swinging, we both agreed that our ideal situation would be with a couple, full swap, in separate rooms. We quickly realized that many of the couples in this lifestyle are full swap same room. Sufficed to say, finding couples with our same interests has been very difficult. Finding male singles, however, has been easy for our female half and she's been speaking to one that we both are comfortable with which is great. Finding a female single has been proving very, very difficult for our male half. We've reached out to a few women; our female half does all the correspondence, but no luck. Not sure if we're looking for advice or similar stories, but we appreciate either.