Thank you all so much for the responses! Most were better thought out and articulated than my original post, which was written in haste as I didn’t expect there to be a real community here giving personal replies so thank you. As for my concerns; I’m not a jealous or insecure man and I’m not afraid of losing my girl, we’re good, and our relationship is light and fun as are we both individually. It’s just new territory for me and wanted some feedback from others experiences. It’s easy to get it in my head that all other men in the LS may be xtra endowed and that it could be demeaning in some situations, I mean I definitely wouldn’t want my girl feeling bad for me. The replies I’ve received have given me a good sense judgement won’t come in to play much and i think we would bothe really enjoy the experience.
Now I just want to find a good way to meet some other open minded people in our area and see how it goes. Any advice is more than welcome. Sun and moon; thank you for the advice, very insightful. And thank you to the rest who’ve responded! Hope to hear more from you