I'm looking for some advice. My husband and I are new to this lifestyle and we do not do any kind of swapping, zero. We are fine with people playing in the same room as us, even on the same bed, but no touching. We have had couples approach us before wanting to talk. I'd love to meet new people and hang out, drink, etc but I freak out every time we are approached. I don't know what to do about our limits when meeting new people. Can you give me advice me please?