So my wife and I have recently began our journey into the LS, and we have been involved in a MFF, MFM, we have also played around at the club with other couples but nothing serious. and we actually just had our first full swap experience. That being said there were a few things that went awry that I want to make sure aren’t an issue moving forward:
1st: within our boundaries/rules are no kissing(she feels that’s intimate between a couple) and that she doesn’t do certain maneuvers orally to the other man that she has only done for me (deep throating and ball play) we were both very clear on our rules.
So with our first experience 2 things happened, one of which was she broke my rule, which wouldn’t have upset me had she not said he “pushed her head down” when I was watching and that didn’t happen she willingly did it. And the second thing is she basically had the female version of “couldn’t get it up”(couldn’t get wet)So my question: is my rule too much too extreme and even after discussing happen again, And is her not getting wet just nerves or is this a sign of something else?