Hi,
i'm new to the scene, just wanted some tips if anyone can advise i will be very greatful...
ive been married for a nearly 25yrs and enjoyed a healthy sex life (well i have at least) over the past few years my wife has started making the odd comment on occasion about the size of my penis (just under 5" and about same in girth) she has told me that for at least the first half of our marriage she never had a orgasm and only later did she start feeling the earth move... shes very reserved generally and does not mention sex much so when she unexpectedly mentioned penis size to me i was a little taken back. when she holds my penis i get the feeling shes constatly trying to 'measure up'. it is making me feel somewhat unsecure. i know shes not had another man before so i guess shes exchanging notes with her friends or reading up?? and mu guess is she probably want to feel what its like to fill her up?? My wife is rather on the large side and im just wondering if my penis is adequetley satisfying her? i do love her very much and would do anything to see her happy. shes not suggested she wants to be with anyone bigger but i'm just getting the feeling. what should i do? is swinging an option? how do i get her to open up and tell me what she wants? or should i just take the sublime messages that she wants more and arrange something?
any help would be appreciated
thank you