This spring, my wife and I decided that we could play separately. She is definitely a 10 in the looks department, and I am lucky to be considered a 7. So, obviously she found it easy to find a guy to play with, and I have not. I have tried finding girls on tinder, SLS, and a few other sites. No luck! Should I just reside to the fact that I'm not going to find someone? Seems women are not that likely to play with a married guy in the way guys are willing to play with married women.