Mikensam30

Thanks for all prospectives to this, she had told me that he used to dabble into the lifestyle with his ex and wants to get back into it( so does every other guy out there) I also agree that it would be a bad idea to allow him to join being he does come her work

I would be included as well. We talked about my concerns. She reassured me it's just sex, just like every other time. She wants to try DP this time around which is her real fantasy about bringing in another man. She does not want a couple this time around because she wants to be the center of attention. Guess what bothered me is that she had ran into someone at her work,and had been messaging and flirting without me, since before we only talked to unicorns and couples through a group chat with all parties involved. I brought up the idea that we can find an attractive stranger for this and she seems excited about it.

We have been swinging for about 4 years now. She is bi and I'm straight. We have done ffm, couple swaps, and it's been great. Recently she has shared a fantasy of bringing in another man to have a threesome with her. I've actually enjoyed watching her with male halfs when we are with a couple. But the idea of bringing a single man is driving my anxiety crazy. I want her to fulfill her fantasies. Has anyone ever been through this and how did you coupe. Plus she recently told me she met someone at her work who comes in and works on the building from time to time who she says she extremely attracted too. I'm not sure how I feel about that being she has picked someone on her own. Any advice would be great