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  • Birthday 08/08/1981

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    Kansas
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    Newbies
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  1. We have created a wonderful relationship, and the four of us have discussed at length the potential dangers of having such a relationship. As I've said, we're all on the same page. We had fun swinging, but realized after we found them, that we wanted more than just swinging, and they were looking for more too. This whole experience has been a pretty wild ride to say the least!
  2. Actually, we didn't have any sex that night! It was just a really wonderful time had by all, and it reaffirmed to all of us what we have and how truly special it is. Our Colorado trip is coming up soon, there will be plenty of bedroom activities!
  3. It has been MF swapping. He and I have no interest in MM, although our wives have played a little while we're all in the same bed. It hasn't been strictly all four of us all of the time though. We've gone on a couple of separate dates. The most recent being this last weekend. I took his wife to a concert, because we both are really into music, and he took my wife out to a nice dinner and some drinks. We all met up afterward for a quick drink and chat. We all had a wonderful time!
  4. Update: We are still with this couple, and we have fallen for them! It seems this sort of thing is rare! It's been a wild ride to this point, and we did hit a little bump in the road, but it's all good now. Next up is a trip to the mountains in Colorado!
  5. This relationship with this couple is growing into something quite amazing. We've spent time with them every weekend since the first weekend we met them. It's become so much more than swinging, and all four of us are completely on the same page!
  6. This couple didn't end up working out with us. We found a new couple not long after I posted this thread. They are amazing people, and it's turned into so much more than swinging. We met them for the first time, alittle over a month ago, and connected with then instantly. It's been intense! We've spent time with them every weekend since we started chatting, and even took a roadtrip to Galveston last weekend. We were sure we wanted friends with benefits, but we've all come to the conclusion that this is a poly relationship. It's not what we were looking for, but it's what we found, and it's wonderful!
  7. I value my friendships. There's always that thought in the back of my mind that they will get bored and want to move on. That aspect of this is a bummer. Like I wrote before though, it's fun, and it will be while it lasts!
  8. My wife and I got into the lifestyle recently, about last six months. We did a ton of research. Actually, this forum helped to answer many questions we had before we ultimately decided to jump in. Jump in we did. We made a couple of profiles on free sites, and began talking to some couples online. At first, we really didn't know what we wanted, other than to spice up our sex lives. The first couple we spoke with, in hindsight, was pretty aggressive. I won't go into details, but we ended up hooking up with them on a first date after a few weeks of very flirtatious chatting. They ended up being a little too different from us. After a couple of other dates with different couples, we realized that we were looking for friends with benefits. I mean, we're not club people, and sex parties never sounded appealing to us, but we still wanted to bang other couples together! The only other couple we've hooked up with since we got into the lifestyle, seem to be what we were looking for. We made a good first impression, and on the second date, we made it to the bedroom with them. It started a little rough, and not in a good way. I had some performance issues the first time with her, but those have since been resolved. We chat with them on a regular basis(several days per week), and we've seen them several times since our first vanilla meeting. My wife and I, are looking forward to continuing to build our relationship with these two. They are good people, and I'm happy to call them friends. Friends that have a good time together on a king size bed, banging each other's spouses! All that said, I don't know how big of a part we will play in this couple's lives, but we're going to ride the wave till the end. Why not, it'll be fun while it lasts!
  9. We had a good time with them Saturday, and we will see this couple on a regular basis! I took things a little too fast with her. It turns out she is super sensitive, and I got her off too many times, too fast. So she and I, never actually got to intercourse, but a great time nonetheless, and a learning experience for me for the next time. My wife is not so sensitive, so I can play with her for hours and never get her off. As a couple who has been together as long as we have, it's all I know! He took my wife to the bedroom, and it went well. She told me they had multiple positions. She can be vocal, so I know he was pleasing her! This lifestyle has not only reignited our sex life, but has almost given us a new lease on life in general. So far, it's been very positive, and refreshing. We are looking forward to continuing our journey! Thanks again to all for the advice we've received from you folks in this forum. It's not a decision we took lightly, and as you already know, once we pulled the trigger, we dove straight in!
  10. We're planning to get together over labor day weekend! We've been chatting with them via Kik, and they seem like a ton of fun. The holiday weekend can't come soon enough
  11. Thanks! Really looking forward to meeting that couple from Saturday night again. Cute couple, she was super cute!
  12. So this entire weekend has turned into one big first experience! Of course, we had the first experience I posted about, but yesterday we met up 2 other couples we found online. No kids this weekend, what else are we supposed to do! The first couple we met for lunch. They are a little younger than us, and also have no experience. They were super nervous, awkward, but a really sweet couple. For my wife and I, we didn't really feel a click with them. The second Saturday couple, was much different. They have a rule, no playing on the first date. Which we were ok with, and may institute ourselves. It made everything very relaxed. We met them for drinks, and chatted with them on the bars patio, because it was a gorgeous August evening, and it was nice and quiet, at least until the dj showed up. We left, and decided to walk the streets for a while and chat some more. All in all, spent about 5 hours with them, and my wife and I really felt a connection with them! We have yet to speak to them since last night, but we think they felt the same way! We were hoping to dip our toes in and test the waters this weekend, but ended up jumping in head first with zero regrets!
  13. So last night was amazing! We met for dinner and got to know each other a little more. It went well, so they invited us over to their campsite afterward (They had pulled their RV to the next town over attending an event, we grabbed a room). We got back to the campsite and did a shot, and talked for a while. As it turned out, myself and the other couple, all went to the same high school together! He and I, actually hung out once or twice among mutual friends! Anyway, we begin a little heavy petting, and things escalated quickly! We ended up doing a full swap under the stars outside their camper! We had a blast! No fears, nerves, or anything. It was certainly not what we were expecting! It seems to have come very natural for us, and we will be getting with them again soon!
  14. My wife and I started talking about doing this a few weeks ago. After a ton of research, and some advice from the fine folks in this forum, we decided to set up a couple of online profiles. We considered a club, but we're not really club people. We received several messages within the first 24 hours and began chatting with a few of them. Over the past 4 days, we've really been jiving with one couple in particular, and are meeting them tonight! We're starting with a vanilla dinner, but the build up to this point suggests it may lead to more. We've been flirting...a lot! Neither of us are nervous, and the other couple is excited too! Details to follow!
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