So here we go with our first post. We are a very happy married couple of many years. During sex we both talk about having another person, male, satisfy the wife. We have talked about this in and out of bed for a couple of years. Now, we would like to follow through. The wife already knows what type of person she would like and knows what she would like to happen. We have not jumped in to find the right person one because we are not sure how and two because we are concerned with diseases or potential of contacting something. Just as a side note we both have only been with each other. Any advise?