RoxyLove

Thank you for the encouraging responses. Will be getting into some fun tonight and I'm really looking forward to it

Thanks so much for the responses. That's good to know. I feel much better proceeding knowing I'm not the only one sober. Trapeze in Atlanta is byob and most people do drink. So my perception has been that it was the norm.

When I used to dance there was a frequent customer in his 50's or 60's and he said he had sex with strippers and prostitutes all the time with no condom but never worried bc he washed his dick with rubbing alcohol before he had sex with his wife! I was in total disbelief at how the older crowd was so uneducated on STDs. Having the view that it won't happen to me bc it's not likely in my demographic is startling.

Thank you for the response We've had so many in the past 18 years, some sober (where the situation just came about) and some while drinking that I never really thought about it. I guess now that I'm definitely not drinking I'm just thinking too much. I'm sure everything will fall in place as it always has, I just wanted to hear others experience going from drinking to not drinking.

My hubby and I have been having MFFs for a long time now. Our first one was about 18 years ago but more so within the past 10 years. I'm an ex-stripper who danced from when I was 19 to 36 and bartended in strip clubs for a few years after that. So I'm pretty open sexually to about everything. My issue is I've recently decided to quit drinking. I'm curious now how nervous or awkward the beginning of a 3some will be without alcohol. I went to a strip club with my husband and a friend last night and had a great time not drinking. I mean I practically lived in those places half my life and know everyone who works in them. I really want to continue doing everything I did in my life, just sober. Basically I'm just wondering what anyone else's experiences have been when they began sober swinging. I don't want the fear of nerves to take away something I really enjoy doing.