Husband & I have tried swinging, tried threesomes, and open relationships for 4 years now. I found the perfect FWB guy for me who I see regularly and have no desire to try anyone else. Hubby however bounces from one person to the next. They text him too much, they want to know too much, are filled with drama & I usually can't handle it anymore and I put an end to it.
We go to parties and I'm not comfortable with the people he chooses to have fun with. I typically only play with women at parties and have no desire for men) If I don't like the person he wants to be with, I can't relax, I can't let him enjoy.
I prefer that he have quickies and be done. No need for sexting/texting or a relationship with others. Just sex.
I want him to have fun, but I'm thinking I'm not cut out for swinging & open relationships. I want my cake, but I can't let him have his.
Suggestions anyone??