Hi there,
This is my first time here. My husband and I have become mildly interested in going to a sex club, not necessarily to have sex with other people right off the bat, but just to see what all goes on and if it is something we would like to indulge in. If we go a couple times and decide to indulge, then I have one HUGE issue--I am terrified of getting a disease. I know that condoms are usually provided for and you should always bring your own anyway, but I really don't know how this works, especially when multiple people might be involved? My second husband (we didn't swing) gave me an STD that was thankfully something cured with antibiotics, so I am really afraid of something happening again and it being something I can't get rid of. I was married to him for 25 years and went straight from #2 to #3 so I really don't have any experience with condom usage, when one should be used, etc. I've pretty much been married since before AIDS was prevalent. Anyways, I'm not trying to be rude, but this is a big concern of mine. Other than that, I am super open to most anything.