Haha. Yes. I'm not very creative! We haven't done it yet but it's something my hubby has wanted to do/threesome. So once I found out about menages I brought the idea back up to him. We are still trying to decide on boundaries and stuff. But I really don't want to waste a trip just to mingle and not get physical. Lol. It's not too far of a drive for us but I'd like to not waste it. A staff member st menages said that it is possible to get physical the first time there. You just have to be personable. So we shall see