Bonnie & Clyde

Thank you guys really appreciate taking the time to write. I may just be over thinking it all I tend to do that a lot. Guess its all about fun and foreplay

Hello everyone male half here .been lurking the forums for answers over the last few days but found one I couldn't find an answer to. After visiting a local swinger club a couple of times we found a potential playmates. We have been texting (men/men and women/women) and got to know the couple better. They know we are newbies they are experienced which is great for us. We have had some dates watching football nothing too wild. Well we are planning a visit soon with the possibility of playing. My question is if it were to escalate to that point how long does the playtime last? My only fear is its going to be something new and exciting and may result in exploding before I want too. I know with condoms I can last but would still like to know I know times differ but what's an average ?