terryanddar
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15 GoodAbout terryanddar
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Contributor
- Birthday 08/08/1986
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
couple not married
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Location
windsor on
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Interests
skating , working out , sex .
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Occupation
Sales , Student
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Swinging Experience
before and after we met
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Anniversary
xx/xx/xxxx
Swinger Info
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Favorite Club(s)
never been
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Tryst or Craigslist for finding swingers?
terryanddar posted a topic in Finding People to Swing With
We have used Tryst mag as a couple and had some good luck finding single males. We are finding a lot of the same people that we either don't want or have played with before. My girlfriend has used Craigslist before and says there are a lot of creepy guys. Anyone have any good reviews for Craigslist? -
Here are some thinks we have discussed and in some cases reaffirmed . 1. As far as marriage goes we don't think it matters if we do or if we don't , neither of us want children , and what is a wedding mean if neither are religious ? 2. It is in part because she doesn't care to invite another women to join us due to lack of arousal , but mainly she says she would get jealous and does not want the chance of resentment towards me . 3. She would like to do threesomes and gangbangs with men only , as often or as long as I am fine with it . List of reasons include it is her favorite and mine , we both really get off on it and share a common kink . She likes to be watched , shared . photographed and video taped by me , it makes her feel sexy . It is working so far , if it ain't broke don't fix it . 4. If I never have two woman at once , oh well . I think there was some inferior feeling I may have had because I' ve been with about 30 women and she has been with more than 100 men . Kind of childish on my part I know . 5. If not all swingers do couples or fmf , than I guess we are not alone , who cares what it is called . 6. I do feel very included , she calls out my name when we swing , engages me with verbal " dirty talk " , prolonged physical and eye contact , passionate kisses etc. 7. It is about the experience and all of the benefits that come before , after and during .
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I don't want to stop swinging , nor does she , and we are not fighting or at odds . I'm not going to cheat on her over an opportunity that has come and gone or for any reason. To be quite honest I love having threesomes more with someone I love than I did as the single guest of other couples . There is no bigger turn on for me and her as well . The whole process , searching , anticipating , first meeting , her getting ready and coming out of the bathroom naked with just a couple pieces of jewelry on with her hair and makeup done , to the first contact . They are the most erotic experiences I 've ever had . I guess we'll change what we are looking for in our profile . Are we still swingers or some variant then ?
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We have talked about changing things up in the bedroom , outside the bedroom . She never get's overly excited about the idea . In the bedroom she does talk a good game . Our add is for single str8 males , couples or str8 females . 90 % of the responses we get are from males , the other 10 % are couples . We have had only 1 female respond . When we look through them she rules out or skips the couples .
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I met my girlfriend a little over 3 years ago . I have been turned on by one girl and multiple men since I was around 19 , when I had my first threesome with a couple that picked me up at a bar . I opened an account online and have met a few couples . This will probably sound strange , but I responded to an online add , where I first met my girlfriend ,she was single . She wanted to party with some guys at a bar and maybe go to a hotel after . I have to lie to my friends and family about how we met , but oh well . Anyway we really hit it off at a gangbang of all places . We have been pretty solid for the last 3 years . We have had threesomes and moresomes all with men but no women . Both of us have only done the one girl multi guy scenario . We have done it together and we have also done it before we knew each other . She said she would try a couple but backs out at the last minute and say's she doesn't like the guy . This summer we had our first positive response from a female . She said she doesn't want to do a threesome with a girl it does nothing for her . She has been with about 15 guys in different scenarios over the last three years , we have done this as a couple . I've told her how much I want to try 2 women at once , at least once in my life and she's not budging . Is this hopeless ? Any advice please ?