excitedfem

I was reading some older post and one woman said a partner initiated anal sex without permission and ripped her anus. The another post said the man came back after her husband left and forced her to have sex with him. All these posts are on this site.

I am concerned about some possible dangers with swinging and what to do for safety. It seems like a woman could easily get raped in a swinging situation. Should both my husband and I carry weapons? Has anyone ever had a bad experience?