Ok thanks for the replies everyone . We have had him over more than once already 3 times to be exact. We did ask him his status before he even cams over and he said he was single. My wife and I only honestly want one couple and one single guy for a routine fun and casual sex basis. So he is supposed to be over tomorrow night again to play and I'm going to ask him some questions and try to get him to open up a little more. My wife loves cock, not his cock but cock in general lol. She is just starting to feel comfortable with him and that's good. I'll post after tomorrow night and let you all know how it went. We have our second couple outside of our friends joining us Sunday too and we are looking forward to that as well. So far swinging as been great we have been able to communicate effectively with each other throughout it all.