Ok, a friend of mine is in this lifestyle and I am so intrigued by it. I would like to bring this up to my husband but based on his personality I'm scared he will be upset about it. We were invited to a party once where swingers attended and I was flirted with a lot by men and he did NOT like it at all.
Also, a conversation came up on the radio about mens' fantasies and threesomes. So I asked him if that is something he fantasized about. He said NO, why do you want to be with a girl? (in a disgusted tone). I was scared to say, yes, I'm curious. But because of his tone I said no, I'm asking you and he said NO that I was all he needed and I did the job great for him.
So now, I'm not sure if is because I was not honest, he's not being honest or what. I guess if he asked me in a more curious or excited way, I would have been honest.
So based on this, do you think I should bring it up again? if so, how can I do it so that it does not seem I am not dissatisfied with HIM and just want to try something exciting and new together with him? I do love him, just bored in the bedroom and curious. Is that a bad reason to want to try this lifestyle? How else can I get him interested in it without him feeling rejected?
Thanks