Hi guys,
Mr.Sealovers here. This is the very first post with my basic question, after searching the forums with not too much luck
Here it is:
- I always had my fantasies about group sex, especially a DP with my wife, but never talked to her about this.
- Ths is crazy but I am also kinda jelous and don't know how I would feel about my wife having sex with another man......although this is my fantasy Crazy isn't it ?
- About a year ago, my wife asked me what do I feel about group sex. She told me that she has a fantasy about having sex with two men (exactly my fantasy about her)
- Because of my jelousy, I gave her an untrue answer, that I also have a fantasy about having sex with two women. Untrue, my fantasy is a DP on my wife or a full swap in the same room ending with DP's on both women.
- The subject died there and we "concentrated" in some voyeur pictures, amateur posts, toys, sex on the deck at night and things of this sort.
My big question is this:
- How can I bypass my jelousy stupid issue ? Did any of you guys had this thing ?
- We had our marital issues at times, maybe a few no-sex week-ends, some fights, but no super-issues. So we're not a "diamond" marriage and I don't really know what swinging could do to us. I really don't want to "jump" without thinking into something that can destroy things that I fought for.
Any ideas from you guys can help, might help. I'm just asking a stupid question, for the very first time in my life, about some fantasy that I don't know how to handle because I don't want it to destroy my marriage.