First let me say what a great job all of you do in helping others with their post. Everyone who is thinking about swinging should log on.
Ok, I am the male half of a couple, we have been going to couple's only clubs for about 2 years. We both really enjoy meeting new people and seeing friends. We have played with a few couples in the past, so we are not so new to swinging. We get a lot of offers to play but I most always turn them down. It is not that I don't find them hot, it's because I am only about 4" when fully hard. The ladies give me that look like "is that all you have?" This has happened a few times, and boy, talk about making one feel bad.
I do love it when a couple comes over and asks us to dance, and when the lady pulls me in close and starts playing with me. Ho-yaaaaa. I love the dancing, the touching and being touched, the kissing, but when it comes down to the sex I don't.
Just would like to hear from others on this.