I would like to thank the few people who have actually answered the question I asked. I'm not sure why the rest of you are answering about the strength of a relationship. That is not the question and quite frankly, none of your business. I am not sure how you ended up so off topic. As far as looking at "older" couples for what else is attractive besides their appearance, I would consider an older couple if they were physically attractive. I don't think that wanting a couple we swing with to be physically attractive is a bad thing, who wants to sleep with someone they only like for what they have inside. Be honest here, nobody I know does!