It was me Rick for sure, we started going together when we were 17, she was a sweet innocent church going Catholic virgin, I took her cherry when we were 18, we married at 21, had our family at 28 and 30, we joined a nudist club when we were early 30's and soon found out their was a lot of swinging going on ther, naturally I wanted to join in, it took a lot of talking but the wife finally went with her first EVER other guy when we were 35 and married 15 years, what a Pandora's box I opened, it was very sexy and fun seeing my 35 year old wife exploring her new found sexual freedome, she had me biting my tongue a few times with some of the things she got up to.
We are now mid 70's, married 55 years and still very much in love, our playing with others has slowed to almost "ALMOST" a stop, but we sure have had a wonderful and exciting sex life.
Rick.