MA24Fun 15 Posted August 15, 2004 Is there such a thing as a universal signal that would let people know definately that they are swingers? for example, I have heard that a woman wearing an anklet on her right leg is a pretty good sign that she is a swinger ... (personally, I wouldnt bet on it) ...but just wondering if anyone knew of any others ....Thanks J&M Quote Share this post Link to post
Pepper & Drew 384 Posted August 16, 2004 I'm thinking about which ankle I wore my anklet on before I was a swinger! Anywho, I've not heard of any secret handshake or anything like that, although that certainly would make things easier. Our swingdar is not so finely tuned. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty Posted August 16, 2004 A woman wearing Dolphin jewelery like a toe ring or an ankle bracelet. A man wearing a red apple pin with a bite taken out of the apple. Quote Share this post Link to post
Reese 15 Posted August 16, 2004 facelick I've heard that an index finger ring is a sign of swingers when it's worn on the left hand. flamethrow Quote Share this post Link to post
inbeachcouple 15 Posted August 19, 2004 After we had our first experience (which was in a club), we each had to get a large 'S' branded on our foreheads. We have heard the whole dolphin/apple thing before. I know with braclettes, anklettes you have to be careful because the S&M folks use that too. I don't remember which hand, ankle, etc.. so that's why I say be careful Quote Share this post Link to post
VegasLee 1,486 Posted August 19, 2004 I have fouind that when we are at our club if there is a naked lady sitting on my lap and I don't know her name chances are she is a swinger. Quote Share this post Link to post
Mrs Spoomonkey 117 Posted August 20, 2004 I have fouind that when we are at our club if there is a naked lady sitting on my lap and I don't know her name chances are she is a swinger. I've never heard of any universal signals and after reading this thought it might be nice if some of the things mentioned were actually true but then that would sort of take all the fun out of it. Mrs Spoomonkey Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty Posted August 20, 2004 We met a couple once who were swingers. We knew they were swingers before we met them, thats why we met. Anyway we had heard, before meeting this couple, about the dolphin & apple thing. When we met them she was wearing dolphin jewlery and he had an apple pin on. Mrs naughty wears a toe ring with dolphins on it. But I do not wear the apple. To hard to explain to the vanilla crowd why I am wearing an apple pin. No one questions her dolphin toe ring. Quote Share this post Link to post
fun_pairTX 26 Posted August 20, 2004 Mrs Fun has a lot of dolphin jewlery. Quote Share this post Link to post
Greg & Sheryl 368 Posted August 20, 2004 We regularly wear our Lifestyles Conventions tee-shirts around town, but no one has approached us because of them, yet! Quote Share this post Link to post
HotMama 15 Posted August 20, 2004 If you see them fucking other people in each others company.... They might be swingers..... Quote Share this post Link to post
fun_pairTX 26 Posted August 21, 2004 If we need to send the signal out fast, Mrs Fun will lift her skirt above her waist and scream like a chicken while I simultaneously remove my unit from my pants and twirl it in a circle. This never fails to get the attention of others, especially in a crowded mall. Quote Share this post Link to post
Vespertine 31 Posted August 21, 2004 If we need to send the signal out fast, Mrs Fun will lift her skirt above her waist and scream like a chicken while I simultaneously remove my unit from my pants and twirl it in a circle. This never fails to get the attention of others, especially in a crowded mall. ! Now I'd like to see THAT! Quote Share this post Link to post
JustAskJulie 2,589 Posted August 22, 2004 I have fouind that when we are at our club if there is a naked lady sitting on my lap and I don't know her name chances are she is a swinger. Hey, who you calling a swinger!? LOL. Watched any Hockey lately? Quote Share this post Link to post
JustAskJulie 2,589 Posted August 22, 2004 If they are wearing a Swingers Board t-shirt they are probably swingers.... The most widely known symbol of swingers is the NASCA apple (the above mentioned apple with a bite out of it), worn by both men and women. Quote Share this post Link to post
PAyoungCPL 17 Posted August 23, 2004 I know the NASCA apple symbol with a bite taken out of it. for those who want more than one bite. It would be great if there was a certin charm that was discreet as far as the symbol goes but still distinct and original enough to be able identify other swingers. Maybe some one could come up with a few ideas and get a poll going. Hell i know we would buy two. Quote Share this post Link to post
VegasLee 1,486 Posted August 23, 2004 I know the NASCA apple symbol with a bite taken out of it. for those who want more than one bite. It would be great if there was a certin charm that was discreet as far as the symbol goes but still distinct and original enough to be able identify other swingers. Maybe some one could come up with a few ideas and get a poll going. Hell i know we would buy two. There is a few people/companies that have put out different ones. Some of them pretty cool, some of them WAY OVER PRICED but it seems that like everything else in the lifestyle no one can agree on anything so none of them really sold much. Quote Share this post Link to post
VegasLee 1,486 Posted August 23, 2004 Hey, who you calling a swinger!? LOL. Watched any Hockey lately? Yes, but I knew the name of the naked lady on my lap during those games. Quote Share this post Link to post
ALilOEverything 900 Posted August 23, 2004 I don't know that I would like to wear an apple around my neck, it wouldn't match everything I wore. I think it would raise more eyebrows thinking "couldn't you come up with something cooler than that". I would like to see something with the infinity symbol (silver or gold) for the infinite possibilities you can have when you expand your mind, sexuality, and partners. Quote Share this post Link to post
WesternSwing 504 Posted October 4, 2004 It just dawned on me the other day that the universal symbol of swingers should be the duck. Has anyone ever watched ducks in the spring? They are nature's swingers! Mr. WS Quote Share this post Link to post
hytril 15 Posted October 5, 2004 No wonder we have not meet anybody. I have been wearing the wrong pin!!!! Now if i can only find room with all these other pins... Quote Share this post Link to post
Chemistry_0518 20 Posted October 5, 2004 It would be nice to know if there is an established symbol. Among participants of the BDSM lifestyle, there is a universal symbol that is loaded with MEANING and HISTORY. My Princess has worn her collar and medallion for more than 3 years, 24/7, and the comments received have all been positive, whether the symbol is recognized or not. Oops. I guess I revealed a secret! Quote Share this post Link to post