Question for those of you that really enjoy anal sex.......

[Fla-swing99 136]

Ok, so my husband and I, prior to being with each other, never had any interest in anal sex at all. After a short period of time in our relationship I, for reason still unknow to me, called him one day and said I know you have no interest in anal sex but, what would you say if I asked you to fuck me in my ass. To my shock he came right back with his response, Absolutely. He said he is not a fan of it but would be very happy to if that is what I wanted him to do. Soon after we had anal sex for the first time and to both our surprise we found that we both got extremely turned on and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was even more shocked at how incredibly wet my pussy got and could not beleive that I actually had an orgasm from having anal sex. I was so wet, the bed sheets below me were soaked.

 

Since then we both have wanted to repeat that night however, I feel we are both overthinking it and are worried about the obvious unpleasantries that can come about from having anal sex.

 

So my question is this, what, if anything, do those of you that enjoy anal sex do to prepare, if anything at all. Do you use an enema to evacuate the area back there first or maybe some other sort of prep that you do. Or do you just say the hell with it, and enjoy it without any prior prep regardless of what may happen. We both have always wondered how these women in porn movies are always doing anal and never seem to have any unpleasantries come up as a result. Sorry if this seem like a basic no brainer question but honestly neither he or I have ever had any experience with this issue prior to now.

 

Thanks in advance for your tips and advice on this subject. I realize it can be a little bit of a shitty subject but I just had to ask.....LOL

[findinganswers 356]

The only time we play back there is after a shower. She has given me signs when she wants her butt played with. She says she enjoys yet I am pretty sure she doesn’t cum from it.

[Numex 2,188]

My wife and I, and all those in our play group have anal sex to varying degrees, some a lot more than others. The only rule is that once in someone's ass, that's the last place your dick is going, except another ass.

[couplers 4,180]

If a guy wants to put his dick in my bum, I'll let him and it feels good, but I can't orgasm from it. He has to have taken care of me first fucking or licking before he can go in there. If that's the plan, I can speed up me getting there.

 

DP on the other hand can be really good. The dick in my vagina makes me orgasm and the one in my bum enhances it. Having both guys ejaculating inside me is exciting too.

[Fla-swing99 136]

So do any of you do anything in advance to ensure that anal and/or DP sex does not bring about, let’s just say, unpleasantries which can happen during the course of any anal play?

[Billygoat 419]

We have done anal.....but long ago. Neither of us are huge fans.

 

With anal a great amount of washing needs to be done after. Limits continued play.

 

Our first few times rather messy and unpleasant. Young and horny we didn’t care but again as a result....limited continued play.

 

We did learn about the preparation required for a positive event.

 

Some eat different three days prior for prep. Others mandate an enema. Several hours of preparation.

[Numex 2,188]

So do any of you do anything in advance to ensure that anal and/or DP sex does not bring about, let’s just say, unpleasantries which can happen during the course of any anal play?

In advance - the woman takes a dump and spread old towels.

Afterwards - another dump by the woman (the action and cum in her rectum loosens things up), and antibacterial showers for all involved.

 

The rectum is NOT another pussy. If you don't recognize what you're doing and enjoy the idea, don't do it. It's "dirty" sex.

[Guest]

If a guy wants to put his dick in my bum, I'll let him and it feels good, but I can't orgasm from it. He has to have taken care of me first fucking or licking before he can go in there. If that's the plan, I can speed up me getting there.

 

DP on the other hand can be really good. The dick in my vagina makes me orgasm and the one in my bum enhances it. Having both guys ejaculating inside me is exciting too.

 

I’m a little bit the opposite of couplers. If I have had just a bit too much to drink, you know those rare occasions, you can lick me all night long, I’m excited but I just can’t quite get off. If finger, dildo or dick in my bum gets me over that hump almost instantly. Perhaps that’s because anal and DP are not uncommon for us. So, I kind of keep that in mind whenever we are going out or otherwise engaging in activities that might lead to play.

[couplers 4,180]

I’m a little bit the opposite of couplers. If I have had just a bit too much to drink, you know those rare occasions, you can lick me all night long, I’m excited but I just can’t quite get off. If finger, dildo or dick in my bum gets me over that hump almost instantly...

Maybe that's my problem, I don't drink. But when I did drink a little, it just put me to sleep rather than getting me excited.

[kittyswinger 256]

If anal play is your thing, why not invest in undergoing natural colonics hydrotherapy for a few sessions. It cleanses the colon and any toxic accumulations in those areas and good for the health too. I did one, though I dont like play partners giving me anal. Only my SO and bf can touch me there to a limited degree. No thrusting motions but they can do rimming on me or shoot their loads in there instead, when Im on fertile days.

[Playman64 201]

I am a huge anal man. It would be my favorite.

The woman can either prepare or just do it spontaneously. I prefer spontaneity of anal, a good shower or washing cleans everything up. Some brown doesn’t turn me off, it’s the opposite.

I love missionary anal, love watching her face as I fuck her ass.

[Yourfunfriends 44]

Anal is amazing and I think if people got over the stigma of it and really just relaxed, they would find that its' quite enjoyable. My advice... go slow and use LOTS of lube. try to warm up with toys of increasing size and lubricate the inside of the bum, not just the thing going in. As subtle and small as fingernails are, they can hurt. 

[Butchj 65]

My ex-wife refused to allow me to screw her ass and because of my persistence she decided to teach me a lesson and screw mine instead with a strap on. I find out what it’s like to take it in the ass and she liked it so much she adopted strap on sex as part of our sexual repertoire. She never gave me the chance to reciprocate and I was always on the receiving end of her dildo.

[martygraham 1]

Kudos to you for bringing it up with him in the first place and even better that both of you ended up loving it! Personally was hesitant to do anal with my partner thinking it can too "dirty" for me but after experiencing it, I can say that it can be a wonderful experience for couples. If there's one tip I can give is to definitely have safety in mind first by cleaning your asshole with an anal douche. Asides from the peace of mind of not contacting any diseases (even if he/she is already your partner) it just makes it an even better experience overall. Enjoy!

[JessicaJamison 843]

I enjoy anal sex, but it definitely requires a lot of prep for me to be able to just enjoy it.  I do orgasm during anal but I am heavy handed in playing with myself during sex so that is why, anal is an enhancement to what I'm doing to myself.  I also need to have had at least one vaginal orgasm before I can do anal.  Generally I am very go with the flow when it comes to sex, but I plan for anal.  I need to do an enema before anal, and I take a very thorough shower, which includes soaping up a finger and cleaning inside my booty.  I give anal to my boys when they have been particularly good boys.  I like how excited they get when I tell them they get to stick it in my butt.

Edited December 5, 2020 by JessicaJamison