CuriousityCat 15 Posted April 4, 2014 Straight to the point: My gf and I of 7 years want to have fun with a lot of people and most of all, we both want her to get completely filled. Problem is, as everyone knows, is the existence of STDs. So, how do we go about it safely? She wants to be completely used by a large group of guys and, being bi, I'd like to get a little bit of action like that as well. We're not the most social of people, but we love having group fun. Is it possible to do it safely without having to build up serious relationships with certain people, hopefully being able to put something together within a matter of days or weeks? Or are we doomed to be lacking a nice, drippy mess from either of us? Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnuswing 4,711 Posted April 5, 2014 The key word in your post is "safely". That means different things to different people. If your definition is 0% chance of anything happening, then the short answer is no, no way to do it safely. Even test result papers are only as good as when the tests were done, not taking into account what may have occurred after the tests, incubation periods, etc. If there is some leeway there with you where safety equals reduced but not eliminated risk, then I guess there is a way to do it by carefully selecting partners, avoiding the more risky sexual activities, etc. but at best all you have done is reduced the risk. Good luck with trying to put something together fast and also meeting all of the things that it will take to make you comfortable with the whole deal. If bareback play is important, then you would probably be better served by investing the time up front to build up a trusting relationship with some like-minded people. Again, not going to ever be totally safe, but I would feel a whole lot more comfortable with that than I would going the fast and easy route. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,019 Posted April 5, 2014 Whenever we open ourselves, we become vulnerable. There is, however, no other way to move forward with discovery. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Chicup 38 Posted April 5, 2014 Used by large group guys - Check "Filled up" - Check bisexual males - (50% greater STD risk than straight) - Check It is about the definition of high risk, the only way it would be worse is going to certain countries to do it. There is no way to do this "safely" or even "reasonably safely" without some rather stringent STD tests ahead of time. Do this and well Alea iacta est. Quote Share this post Link to post
rachel66 16 Posted July 10, 2014 We aren't 'traditional' swingers in that I'm part of a poly family that includes my husband, me, my boyfriend, my sister, her husband and one other man. We agreed not to have additional sex partners without us all discussing it and agreeing on it. We only have unprotected sex and we all get tested regularly. We all get satisfied and my sister and I are submissive and give the guys what they want. My husband and I have been in this lifestyle for 8 years and one bump in the road was that I had a baby almost 3 years ago. I'm 47 now so I don't worry about getting pregnant again. We're all straight but my husband enjoys the cream pie. It's all pretty erotic...and fun. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
DestinyBandJ 34 Posted July 12, 2014 There is no such thing as being too safe. And even then, to find a large group of guys who are open minded about bi guys is even harder. Most straight guys (at least in our experience) think that every bi guy out there is out to play with him anally. Not so, some bi guys don't like anal play, just oral. The Bi part just comes down to physical attraction. So playing bareback with a large group can be dangerous, but if you can get yourself out there and find a social circle, you might actually have a good chance at getting the desired results you want. Just be very cautious. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
81lizard69 469 Posted July 13, 2014 Take care of yourself first. Sometimes the fantasy is best left as a fantasy. That being said, My wife and I play with this couple and the male is well endowed and is the biggest cummer we have ever seen. I kinda don't like playing with them because his man juice gets everywhere when he comes. My wife talks to me about wanting him to cum in her unprotected and she thinks it would be hot. If he was not such a big player we would consider it, but he is a player and plays a lot. We don't know what he does when we are not around. With the right couple we would do it. But, we looked at it this way - If we were to swing with ourselves we would not play unprotected. Why, because we do have sex with others that have sex with others and it's just to much of a risk in our minds. I hope that helps. If the circumstances were right we would definitely play bareback. Until then we err on the side of caution. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest CplNudist1 Posted August 22, 2014 We understand totally and committed fun with known lovers is our ideal situation. Players make us nervous and requiring protection with him is only reasonable course of action. Humorous way you portrayed his man juice getting everywhere Quote Share this post Link to post
ceedee 16 Posted January 18, 2015 Safe sex...leaving the lights on in the bedroom. Actually, for us, it's not worth the risk. Quote Share this post Link to post