Ladies are with boobs as men are with penises

[leavethis 15]

I have often heard my wife say "I have the smallest boobs here tonight!". And I always reply by saying it doesn't seem to matter to all those guys checking you out and hitting on you! Believe me when I say variety is the sweetest spice in life. Stay as you are! If another person doesn't like you because you don't have big boobs, that is not a person you want to know!

[MeAndHim72 15]

Thank you for saying that! I've always been rather insecure about my smaller breast size. There have been times that I've actually felt inferior to other much larger breasted women. Hubby doesn't understand why I feel this way. He always tells me that confidence is the sexiest thing of all. He says he would rather be with a small breasted woman who is confident than with someone who looks like Pam Anderson, but isn't confident. And I know he's right, so I'm working on my self esteem. I know I have to if we're gonna be in this lifestyle.

[Uomo 15]

There is no need to be self-concious about breast size -- it may even be a hidden benefit tom some. Guys with an average-sized penis (like myself) might PREFER a woman with smaller tits insofar as it can ease some of our own pesky insecurities about penis size (After all: Why should I expect a woman with small tits to bust my balls simply because I'm not "hung like a horse"? -- you wouldn't ... so in that situation we can both take our personal insecurities off the table and focus on what we should be focusing on: having fun.) Personally, I would prefer a petite woman with small-to-average tits over an average-sized woman with large tits. So relax about it and have a good time. Nothing is more sexy to a guy than a sexy attitude.

[GerdOEvert 51]

Small breasts with sexy nipples are neat.

 

I know some women who feel so bad about being a 34A or 34B.

 

Forget it. Men love them, and they love the sensititive nipples too.

 

Otto

[ThePleasureKing 15]

boys have a penis, girls have a vagina.

[Paphian 16]

Hubby doesn't understand why I feel this way. He always tells me that confidence is the sexiest thing of all. He says he would rather be with a small breasted woman who is confident than with someone who looks like Pam Anderson, but isn't confident.

 

Your hubby is a wise man.

 

And I know he's right, so I'm working on my self esteem. I know I have to if we're gonna be in this lifestyle.

 

And you're obviously a wise woman to recognize that he's right about this.

 

"Sexy" is attitude, not attributes.

[txduo2000 18]

boys have a penis, girls have a vagina.

 

 

Ok Uh, thanks for pointing that out.

 

Actually, what the thread is about is that women are concerned about their boob size in the same way men are concerned about their penis size. Not what men have and what women have.

 

But, again, thanks for clarifying to all of us who may not have known the anatomical differences between men and women.

[dragonblade 27]

When I read the "boys have a penis, girls have a vagina" all I could think about was the little boy saying it in Kindergarten Cop! You're too young! Get outta this forum! j/k

[2 Hot J's 16]

Who really cares about boob size? I mean what more can you do with a really large breast. I can do a few things with them on J, but to be honest, I like a medium size I guess its medium at 36 C. They are sexy and the nipples drive me nuts. If they were bigger, she would have more self confidence she says, but in order to get that, there seems to be way too many harmful things that I do not want her to take. I love her deeply and being safe and healthy is the key for me.

 

Mr. J facelick

[MeAndHim72 15]

Small breasts with sexy nipples are neat.

 

Oh, I definitely have nice nipples. And my boobs are very nicely shaped. I just wish they were a little bigger.

[MB1991 81]

boys have a penis, girls have a vagina.

boys have a penis, girls have a vulva

[TV TOM 15]

I would very much like to get into the swinging lifestyle but am very embarrassed about the size of my cock. It is very small and even tho my wife wants to fuck me, she also makes fun about the size of it.

[hrnycoupl414 15]

Hey people! Mr. HrnyCpl here....kind of new.....anyway, I am always saying that people should work with what they have and "walk like they own it." Basically I am saying be happy with what you have, just figure out how to use it as best as you possibly can.....you can't go wrong there!

[LOL_OMG 130]

I have 36C boobs and I get lots of compliments on them. My hubby loves to show them off. But lemme tell ya, even at this size....my back hurts. I've thought about having a reduction even but I dont wanna mess up the symetry, they do look nice. I see women having saline implants and I say OMG why would you wanna 1) take the risk 2) most boob jobs are pretty obvious 3) possibly have to deal with backpain.

 

I do understand about insecurities. I have a poochy tummy and dont like to wear stuff that shows my midsection because of it. I guess it's just personal demons you have to deal with somehow. As far as making fun of a spouses penis....I would never. Ever.

 

 

Mrs LOL

[Mike and Jan 20]

I, for one, absolutely love smaller breasts! I think it'd really surprise you ladies to know how many of us men do.

 

When I see an attractive woman who has obviously had a boob job I have to wonder how gorgeous her body must have been before.

 

There are some guys who go for the huge boobs and they, somehow, have convinced women that they're the majority. They're not!

 

Rich

[Island guy 16]

I like the natural look. It's not the size that's important, but the shape. Too many breast implants look like some kind of version of pin the tail on the donkey. My wife does complain about her breast size, but she has beautiful small breasts. They are perfect. But, I understand where she's coming from because I have an average sized penis and wish I was hung like a stud horse.

[n2wishin 15]

Oh, I definitely have nice nipples. And my boobs are very nicely shaped. I just wish they were a little bigger.

 

I used to hate my small breasts, that is, until I turned 40. No sag, more sensitive than most. Embrace those boobies darling!

[johntoniswing 15]

i find small breasts more sexy then large ones and most breast inplants just dont do it for me have a great day

[swing52001 15]

Ask your wife if she has ever thought about what you found attractive about her. I like my peanut butter crunchy. My wife likes hers smooth. We all look for different things in life. I know a couple of women who have boobs smaller than some others. They are both very capable of keeping a man's attention. I suspect that, like MeAndHim's hubby says "confidence is the key" Success might be getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.