Swinger or sex worker? The fake world of social media and swinging

[robertodabull 9]

Can Sex workers swing? Sure, who’s stopping them?

 

Can swingers perform sex work for a living? Yeah, why not.

 

But if you have an OF or a webpage in which you upload your so called “swinging” activities and adventures, to me you are sex worker/performer/porn star. Not a swinger.  And someone needs to tell you this.

 

Swinging is recreational sex with no transactions attached to it. You sell sexual content. Gigantic difference.

 

You would think that swinging and ethical non monogamy in general being brought to the mainstream by endless podcasts and YouTube channels would be somewhat of a positive thing. If it weren’t all fake. And strangely, a lot of these platforms are presented by very attractive women. Could it be that they are exaggerating female enthusiasm for the lifestyle in order to get views?! Gasp! No way!

Their so called advice and “pointers” are all bullshit. But particularly irritating are the “tips for single males” segments they come up with. As if a 20 something paid prostitute is able to tell me about a complicated lifestyle I have lived for 14 years. 
 

Talk about fueling FOMO on a lifestyle that is so brutal and full of flakes, fakes, frigid women and covert prudes. So often being presented as this loving community of open and warm people 🤣 

 

[couplers 4,186]

I know several women trapped in their miserable marriages because of the kids who consider themselves to be "sex workers."

[discreetplay 226]

7 hours ago, robertodabull said:

Talk about fueling FOMO on a lifestyle that is so brutal and full of flakes, fakes, frigid women and covert prudes. So often being presented as this loving community of open and warm people

I'm curious why you bother posting these angry rants about the swinging lifestyle. We get it, you are a single male who gets little attention and you're very angry about it. Your attitude may be one of the reasons why you aren't as successful as you think you should be. Your endless rants about the lifestyle are getting old.

 

 

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11 minutes ago, discreetplay said:

I'm curious why you bother posting these angry rants about the swinging lifestyle. We get it, you are a single male who gets little attention and you're very angry about it. Your attitude may be one of the reasons why you aren't as successful as you think you should be. Your endless rants about the lifestyle are getting old.

 

 

Yes, I agree and what do you expect from social media? YouTube is nothing but influencers trying to make money off subjects they claim to know of and have no credentials to back it up. Enjoy life and live life on your terms.

[robertodabull 9]

1 hour ago, discreetplay said:

I'm curious why you bother posting these angry rants about the swinging lifestyle. We get it, you are a single male who gets little attention and you're very angry about it. Your attitude may be one of the reasons why you aren't as successful as you think you should be. Your endless rants about the lifestyle are getting old.

 

 

Personal attacks are so typical when someone feels identified with my statements. 

You don’t have any obligation or necessity to read them, do you? Just skip through.

 

We all know this is true, and lots of people have confirmed it to me, though no publicly.

 

 

[travelingprofessional 46]

Maybe I misunderstood the point of these forums. I thought they were to exchange information, get tips/suggestions, etc. Not angry rants that attack the lifestyle.

 

Maybe the moderator can clarify so I'm understanding the purpose.

 

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2 hours ago, robertodabull said:

Personal attacks are so typical when someone feels identified with my statements. 

You don’t have any obligation or necessity to read them, do you? Just skip through.

 

We all know this is true, and lots of people have confirmed it to me, though no publicly.

 

 

Yes, I agree, I think people that don't like or agree with you should just pass over your posts!

[robertodabull 9]

1 hour ago, travelingprofessional said:

Maybe I misunderstood the point of these forums. I thought they were to exchange information, get tips/suggestions, etc. Not angry rants that attack the lifestyle.

 

Maybe the moderator can clarify so I'm understanding the purpose.

 

Did you feel attacked?
Not attacking the lifestyle at all.

But if you want to get me banned for voicing an opinion. Then go ahead. The facts don’t change.
 

 

[robertodabull 9]

24 minutes ago, let's do it again said:

Yes, I agree, I think people that don't like or agree with you should just pass over your posts!

It really is that simple.

Unless said person feels personally attacked by my statements, then I can understand the spite somewhat 

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Can a Swinger get benefits by having sex? 
If a person looks at sex as something away from love and relationships that person can reap additional benefits from sexual freedom. Many have used sex to get what they want. 

[bbarnsworth 2,544]

This is getting tiresome.