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    Default First time to a club, or really doing anything like this....

    I posted this report in another thread, but I think it deserved it's own thread here.

    OK! We went to Trapeze. The food was great. We went on a Friday night (single males allowed), and so I think the vibe was a little different. There were single guys scattered about, but all of them were respectful. I think it was because of this that people weren't really mingling. We ate, drank, and people-watched for quite a while as the place filled up. Not many couples were talking to others. We had a great time just talking to each other, having a few drinks, and dancing. One thing that was really great is that you feel really free to dance dirty in the club for obvious reasons.

    Around 11:30 we got out of our clothes, charged into the back like a boss, and had crazy good sex with each other in the couples room. Anxiety about PDA, being around people in the lifestyle, and having sex right next to others is now gone! It was a great suggestion from the group that we do this prior to our Hedo trip. I wish we could have interacted more with people, but it didn't seem like that kind of a night. We are going to make a return trip on a Saturday night (couples only) to see if that changes the vibe.

    This was by far the most exotic thing we've done in 20 years. Compared to some of the reports here it's pretty tame, but to go from plain vanilla to showing up at a swingers club, dirty dancing, and having sex in a room full of others having sex in one night was pretty big for us! This was a fantastic stepping stone before Hedo in March. We are both excited and also looking forward to going back to Trapeze on a couples only night.

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    Default Re: First time to a club, or really doing anything like this....

    Since you are in Atlanta, have you heard of Paradise Valley Resort in Dawsonville? First-timers can enter for free, and they have non-stop activities into the night. While no open play is evident during the day, there are plenty of lifestyle couples there. The Little Club opens Saturday night, 10 or 11 pm, and has a clubhouse area and a bedroom. Anything goes there. Then there is The Grove, in Cleveland, Ga, which is more wide-open, and sex happens anywhere/anytime. The Valley provides all meals, you buy your drinks (bottled water is available), while the Grove charges $50 cash for couples, and you provide your own food and drinks. The Valley is much larger, and has been our choice for the last 14 months, and the people there are great...non-judgemental, laid-back, and fun to be around. If you are an SDC member, there is usually a monthly meet n greet, with free everything, except for lodging. If rooms are booked, they partner with Dawson Village Inn nearby, with $22 room specials, AND free shuttle to and from the resort.

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