AbbyandJulian 17 Posted December 17, 2015 I'm sure this has been asked many times but with technology changes I figured an updated answer would be nice. The wife and I are considering finding a third for MFM, we want a "stranger" over the friend option. We are trying to avoid the craigslist crazies and have been thinking of SLS, but is there any other good places? We might make it happen far away from home to avoid any social problems. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Formybubu 53 Posted December 17, 2015 SLS is a great place to find single guys. We usually go with those who are paid members. Then we see what kind of certs they have from others. Yes there are many crazies on CL but if you read the post carefully you have a better chance of finding a good one or two. (We have found the ones who offer no obligation full body massages have been good choices). As for finding a "Stranger" check which hotels in the area you want to find one cater to businessmen who travel to that area and what the best bar/restaurant are near by. They tend to go there. Good luck in your hunt and in honor of the New Star Wars "May the force be with you". Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,019 Posted December 18, 2015 . . . have been thinking of SLS . . . Do that think you could do better than this one. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted December 18, 2015 We use nice bars in business hotels in larger cities or at resorts. Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,508 Posted December 18, 2015 AbbyandJulian, we're in a similar boat. We both think it would be interesting to connect her with a single male, and would want it to be a stranger in a remote place. On the east coast, we had some success spotting possible candidates in cocktail lounges that attract the after-work 30-something crowd, although we haven't tried taking it any further. Dress appropriately and be happy and flirtatious, you'll invariably get some invitations. In our case, she simply declined since we had no intention of swinging, rather than introducing the fellow sitting next to her, Mr. EastInWest as a third wheel who would also be attending. I have no idea how that would be received by most interested men. Quote Share this post Link to post
enhancer 1,550 Posted December 18, 2015 If we knew the answer we would let you know! As much as it is something we would like to find we never seem to be able to find single guys that have a clue of how to deal with a couple. No shortage of dudes that will show you their cock pic though. Quote Share this post Link to post
Bob250 74 Posted December 20, 2015 A good suggestion would be to ask other couples. Most swinging couples know at least a few single guys who would be willing to travel for some fun. In my particular case, it was word of mouth recommendations, that got me most of my playmates, and encounters. Like a lot of other singles, I actually prefer to travel to play. Quote Share this post Link to post